[Spice]

I walk on my brothers' backs

[Asvi]

Originally Posted by Spice

I walk on my brothers' backs

i've also done that.

[zzze]

asslamau alaykum

no..the man will see Your awrah area. Uneless ur a non-hijabi, in which case i'm sorry

[Spice]

Originally Posted by Asvi

i've also done that.

And I'm surprised I havent severly injured anyones ribs yet

[hijabihoodlum]

Originally Posted by zzze

asslamau alaykum

no..the man will see Your awrah area. Uneless ur a non-hijabi, in which case i'm sorry

if she was massaged by a woman, and her husband by a man, and both covered their awrah, then i don't think a man would see her awrah.

[Asvi]

Originally Posted by zzze

asslamau alaykum

no..the man will see Your awrah area. Uneless ur a non-hijabi, in which case i'm sorry

first of all, if i did get one, it wont be by a man. and why does it matter if i was hijabi or not.. i still wouldn't let a man give me a massage ever. i just don't roll like that, na mean?

[Asvi]

Originally Posted by Spice

And I'm surprised I havent severly injured anyones ribs yet

hahah... or maybe you have...

[PhDGirl]

Originally Posted by Asvi

first of all, if i did get one, it wont be by a man. and why does it matter if i was hijabi or not.. i still wouldn't let a man give me a massage ever. i just don't roll like that, na mean?

Not even your husband

Just kidding - you shouldn't bother justifying things - sometimes people just assume the worst. There are so many ways that this could work logistically. If you want to do it, I'm sure there's a way (screen, have massages in different treatment rooms and meet up later etc) for it to be done while preserving modesty. I've looked into it for us, but the husband isn't into it.

[Spice]

eek, I dont think anyone was assuming the worst of Asvi. We all know what an achi bachi she is

[Spice]

Originally Posted by PhDGirl

Not even your husband
.

Now why would you let him so close to you?

[Asvi]

Originally Posted by PhDGirl

Not even your husband

Just kidding - you shouldn't bother justifying things - sometimes people just assume the worst. There are so many ways that this could work logistically. If you want to do it, I'm sure there's a way (screen, have massages in different treatment rooms and meet up later etc) for it to be done while preserving modesty. I've looked into it for us, but the husband isn't into it.

my hubby's not into it either.. but i just thought it be relaxing for both of us and i'll just make him have one muhahaha. lol

you're rite we don't have to be in the same room or could use screens. we'll see what happens, and i'll keep ya'll posted if i went through w/it.

[Asvi]

Originally Posted by Spice

eek, I dont think anyone was assuming the worst of Asvi. We all know what an achi bachi she is

yes i am !!!

[Salika]

Originally Posted by Asvi

first of all, if i did get one, it wont be by a man. and why does it matter if i was hijabi or not.. i still wouldn't let a man give me a massage ever. i just don't roll like that, na mean?

I think the dilemma for a hijabi is that the husband's masseuse would be a man and he can't see her if ya'll in the same room.

On second thought, even most nonhijabis would feel uncomfortable as the massages usually require no shirt even if all the guy sees is a back.

Ya, screen is better.

I love massages though I need one

[Salika]

I finally found a moisturizer that I actually like... jojoba oil.

Most moisturizers are either too greasy for me, too thick, leave my skin still feeling thirsty, don't absorb, etc... but jojoba oi... I'm in love

[foozball]

17 days.