[sona]

fifa - alhumdulillah
give some sadaqah when you get the chance insha'Allah.

[afrakabob]

Originally Posted by sally

idealizing people is never fun. it's like being in a fog and at some point or another they're going to disappoint you majorly and it'll be like a knife through the fog
not cute
i hope things work out

you know what's messed up? even that idealizing included an honest awareness of a lot of not-so-good things... to the extent that i felt like i was being realistic, and despite being aware of most of the shortcomings, was still okay with the whole thing. from the beginning, i knew the situation was always far from ideal, but even so i seem to have idealized it.

now, more things are becoming clear, and it's not even nearly over, but i'm really beginning to wonder if i can do better. because like someone said earlier, little problems or character flaws don't simply go away or become more tolerable over time.

[sumiyia]

Originally Posted by DramaRani

One of my friends sends me a Hadith everyday on Facebook. I thought I'd share since it relates to pregnancy, and Alhumdulillah, so many FPHers are pregnant, mA.

Translation of Sahih Bukhari, Book 77:
Volume 8, Book 77, Number 594:

Narrated Anas bin Malik:
The Prophet said, "Allah puts an angel in charge of the uterus and the angel says, 'O Lord, (it is) semen! O Lord, (it is now ) a clot! O Lord, (it is now) a piece of flesh.' And then, if Allah wishes to complete its creation, the angel asks, 'O Lord, (will it be) a male or a female? A wretched (an evil doer) or a blessed (doer of good)? How much will his provisions be? What will his age be?' So all that is written while the creature is still in the mother's womb."

wow subhanallah...

and i'm glad you're okay.. alhamdulillah.

[sumiyia]

in other news.... FREAKING HELL!!!! I HATE MY MOOD SWINGS!!!!! alhamdulillah, as upset as i was, i didn't say anything or hurt anyone's feelings... instead i cried a whole bunch and vented to the husband. on top of it all, i had really bad cramps and food poisoning and ended up missing my friend's nikkah


my mommy is incredible masha'allah and i'm so lucky to have her. nearly all of my kameezes are too tight for me to wear properly so i took them over to her for her to alter... she fixed two of them in like an hour flat... they look sooooo nice now that they actually fit me. oh... and shes throwing a dawat for like 100+ people at her house and has zero help so i feel really crappy because shes overworked and not doing well healthwise and i'm not there to help... i'm planning on driving back on the morning of to help her out, and stay the night to help with the clean up insha'allah. could you please keep her in your du'aas? i'd really appreciate it.. jazaks

[afrakabob]

Originally Posted by afrakabob

but i'm really beginning to wonder if i can do better. because like someone said earlier, little problems or character flaws don't simply go away or become more tolerable over time.

...at the same time, i'm afraid of throwing away a good thing.
i dont know where the line is between a good person who has a lot of baggage to overcome but wants to move on, and someone who might not ever get over it, and might not ultimately be worth the trouble.

it's never a good idea to go into something hoping the other will change.

[ChotooMotoo]

Originally Posted by zzze

You know these don't have normal tampons in Saudi?!

I'm surprised they have tampons at all. I would have thought there was some taboo or fatwa forbiding tampons.

[afrakabob]

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

I'm surprised they have tampons at all. I would have thought there was some taboo or fatwa forbiding tampons.

nooooo!
-makes mental note not to move to saudi-
-not that she was ever considering it, in the first place-

SO. my can of air freshener leaked and got my digital camera soaked. now it won't turn on

i hope the liquid evaporates so it will work again

[sumiyia]

Originally Posted by afrakabob

nooooo!
-makes mental note not to move to saudi-
-not that she was ever considering it, in the first place-

SO. my can of air freshener leaked and got my digital camera soaked. now it won't turn on

i hope the liquid evaporates so it will work again

you could put it in the microwave. the heat will get rid of the liquid inside the camera.

[DramaRani]

Originally Posted by sona

fifa - alhumdulillah
give some sadaqah when you get the chance insha'Allah.

Yup. Totally writing a check for the masjid before bed, iA.

Sumiyia: I hope you feel better iA and duaas for your mom .

[HijabiPrincezz]

fifa - im so glad ur okay!!! alhumdulilah!!

sumi- inshallah i hope youre mommy feels better! duas her way!

for all the ladies that need it ---->


so far this semster it seems as if i have only had tests, and tests, and tests....every single week its liek im crammin for something...sigh. i cant wait until this semester is over...spring break really did me in, my mind is still on break somehow and i cant get myself to study and i have a test in physio psych on thursday and for the first time since the begining of this semster, i havent outlined my chapters the week before the test...i usually spend a week outlining and the week of the test, revising my notes and memorizing...and i have way too much to do now. sigh.

[Sugarberry]

Originally Posted by sumiyia

in other news.... FREAKING HELL!!!! I HATE MY MOOD SWINGS!!!!! alhamdulillah, as upset as i was, i didn't say anything or hurt anyone's feelings... instead i cried a whole bunch and vented to the husband. on top of it all, i had really bad cramps and food poisoning and ended up missing my friend's nikkah


my mommy is incredible masha'allah and i'm so lucky to have her. nearly all of my kameezes are too tight for me to wear properly so i took them over to her for her to alter... she fixed two of them in like an hour flat... they look sooooo nice now that they actually fit me. oh... and shes throwing a dawat for like 100+ people at her house and has zero help so i feel really crappy because shes overworked and not doing well healthwise and i'm not there to help... i'm planning on driving back on the morning of to help her out, and stay the night to help with the clean up insha'allah. could you please keep her in your du'aas? i'd really appreciate it.. jazaks

i would cancel the dawat and just tell people your mom's not feeling well, im sure they will understand that your mom doesent need the extra stress.

[Spice]

Sum: Maybe if you have time you can make something at home and take it over? like some of the sides or something?

Drama: Cant spread repp, but alhamdulilah you're safe and sound, alhamdulilah

[Caramel_Candy]

Originally Posted by sumiyia

in other news.... FREAKING HELL!!!! I HATE MY MOOD SWINGS!!!!! alhamdulillah, as upset as i was, i didn't say anything or hurt anyone's feelings... instead i cried a whole bunch and vented to the husband. on top of it all, i had really bad cramps and food poisoning and ended up missing my friend's nikkah


my mommy is incredible masha'allah and i'm so lucky to have her. nearly all of my kameezes are too tight for me to wear properly so i took them over to her for her to alter... she fixed two of them in like an hour flat... they look sooooo nice now that they actually fit me. oh... and shes throwing a dawat for like 100+ people at her house and has zero help so i feel really crappy because shes overworked and not doing well healthwise and i'm not there to help... i'm planning on driving back on the morning of to help her out, and stay the night to help with the clean up insha'allah. could you please keep her in your du'aas? i'd really appreciate it.. jazaks

Definently iA. Hope she feels better soon

DR: Glad your okay as well

[the_only_one]

DR--al hamdoulilah.

Sumi

recently, i came back from my barty and it was not all de-stressing especially b/c it was mixed. couldnt do much, other than sit like a statue, talk, eat. lol.

i looked alright by my standards and i thought my makeup sucked big time, when i walked in..my sister said, lightning system in the hall compliments my makeup?

and as i saw my lost friends, they complimented on my looks. mA.

note to myself- next time, smoky eyes! iA

[farah]

duas for sumi and fifa

Originally Posted by afrakabob