[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

Yeah, I think that's right. Cysts are common, but 9/10 times they resolve themselves, and you never know you had one. Occasionally they don't reslove so you need to use some medicine to shrink them, and very rarely they get complicated and need surgery.

the whole shrinking, complicated thing alhamdulilah. May Allah swt grant us all good health and imaan, ameen.


I just woke up from a dream (the husband's fajr alarm), but I'm glad I was woken up from it. If somehow I ever had a baby, I would be a bad mum Let's just say I forget things everywhere
Does anyone have a link on dream interpretation? I had the book, but I left it in the UK.

thanks

jellymill- Try not to worry about things like your hair when your husband is leaving so soon and u have studying to do - you can't do everything

[afrakabob]

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

OMG!!! Aunties are the WORST!!! Makes FPH look sweet and innocent by comparison!

Originally Posted by zzze

SO gross. I remember one time this auntie looked at a tiny dent in the ceiling, above which a bedroom of the married people was situated and commented ''is that where the drawers are? what have u been doing on there? '' I nearly vomited in my mouth whilst I was walking out the room. THIS is why I don't sit with aunties. Half an hour of pleasant, polite conversation and then they get down to the real deal. Gross. They should be exchanging recipes or knitting. Nothing else.

omg. i was at ISNA, in one of those glass elevators in the hyatt. so i'm in the elevator with these three middle-aged women in abayas, and a brother who was about my age. one of the women asked if the elevator was going down, and the other woman said "no, it's going up." then, out of the blue, the third woman chuckled and said, "i wish my husband could still do that!"



THERE WAS A BROTHER THERE.

[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

i had to read that twice as i didnt kno wwhich kinda haram you were refering to. Yeahhh...don't hang around married people in general, most of them all talk about harami things (neddlessly)...which is why I always dread auntie gatherings where there arent children, but even them they slip in the occassional innuendo. Not niccce.

[thejellymill]

Originally Posted by afrakabob

the third woman chuckled and said, "i wish my husband could still do that!"



THERE WAS A BROTHER THERE.

I'd probably want to jump out of the elevator right then

Originally Posted by zzze

assalamu alaykum

i had to read that twice as i didnt kno wwhich kinda haram you were refering to. Yeahhh...don't hang around married people in general, most of them all talk about harami things (neddlessly)...which is why I always dread auntie gatherings where there arent children, but even them they slip in the occassional innuendo. Not niccce.

hey! that's not true. I'm married and I dont like to crack random sick jokes or insert innuendo into everything! You know, actually I get mind-in-the-gutter comments from more NON-married friends than I do married ones, some comments actually make me think they're saying everything BUT what's really on their minds which is probably "tell us about the 'dirty' stuff"

EDIT: lol, that reminds me.. my mom told me when she and my dad were newly married they went out of town or something and stayed with my dad's desi friend and his family for a weekend. The married guy had a younger unmarried sister about 2 yrs younger than my mom (my mom was 21). Once they were alone all the girl did was ask about "stuff married people do," including personal questions. What a weirdo

[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

Yeah, I dont either except if a married person needs info, but in my experiance *i* believe us to be the exceptions

[heba]

alright, theyre gone
we had fun, I LOVE ROCK BAND

now its time for bed, i just took two extra stength tylenols, i hope i sleep well

goodnight beautifulllsssss

[the_only_one]

Originally Posted by sumiyia

Mr. Sumiyia says (12:23 PM): you can do makeup in the car

Sumiyia says (12:23 PM): no. i cannot

Mr. says (12:23 PM): k

Sumiyia says (12:24 PM):
sheesh
its hard enough to do it standing completely still
you expect me to apply liquid eyeliner properly in a moving car?

Mr. says (12:24 PM):
yes

Sumiyia says (12:24 PM):
no
you phail

this past summer, my brother in law, sister and myself were heading to a wedding..[her bbf's wedding] while the older ones are already at the bonquet..

in middle of freeway, my sister screams "breakkkk"
bil: puts his feet on BREAKS
i almost lost it, shocked as to what happened?... and

l look at my sister, with an expression on my face "wth?"
my bil: turns around and says, "living with a woman makes you realize what matters the most"
me: i turn around and see my sister putting her eyeliner bwahahahah

:

[jaani]

So there have never been any desis living above or next to our apartment, but just a couple months ago, a bunch of bachelor men - I assume 3 or 4 - moved in the apt. right next to the one above us.

They are LOUD! They bang doors, walk up and down the stairs by landing at the steps HARD! And every late night, they gather around outside my window by the parking lot with a couple more friends who arrive in a car banging LOUD music. Its as if they own everything

And how could I miss this final detail. Two days after they arrived, the first thing that greeted me when I walked out of my door was a stain - paan, to be exact!

~j

[Timbit]

You guys should stop being stingy about that kind of information. Some unmarried people really don't know lots and so they need to know. Personally, I think they should read more, but some people just don't. There are ways to talk about it without divulging your bedroom secrets... I could help, but it'd be weird since I'm not married. I kinda wanna be a marriage counsellor/sex therapist for Muslim couples. I dunno. I wanna do too many things.

Anyway... putting oil in your hair really helps if it's damaged. My mom did it for me today since my grandma was out... I wish I could do it twice a week like she recommended, but I don't have time during the week. It's only on weekends. I've done it maybe 3 or 4 times so far and it's helped. Also, I tried that egg and olive oil thing that somebody on here posted... Salika? It helped!

Farah: Lemme know when you find out. Curls don't stay long in my hair either.

Fooz: Won't you be the prettiest of them all? It's your mehndi. And the dulhan has to outshine everybody else.
Forbid them from looking better than you!

[sumiyia]

so the mehndi was a lot of fun... i played the dhol while we sang songs.. my hand is bruised now because of the dhol.. and then we did a whooooole bunch of dancing

i wore this http://img89.imageshack.us/img89/829...0001234rd1.jpg and looked the hotnesssssss.. pics available upon request

[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

Originally Posted by Timbit

You guys should stop being stingy about that kind of information. Some unmarried people really don't know lots and so they need to know. Personally, I think they should read more, but some people just don't. There are ways to talk about it without divulging your bedroom secrets... I could help, but it'd be weird since I'm not married. I kinda wanna be a marriage counsellor/sex therapist for Muslim couples. I dunno. I wanna do too many things.

exactly...for ''married'' couples or people set to be wed soon.

I need a tummy rub dub and these nightmares need to go away. I'm going to have to up the pre-sleep duas.

[Salika]

Originally Posted by Timbit

You guys should stop being stingy about that kind of information. Some unmarried people really don't know lots and so they need to know. Personally, I think they should read more, but some people just don't. There are ways to talk about it without divulging your bedroom secrets... I could help, but it'd be weird since I'm not married. I kinda wanna be a marriage counsellor/sex therapist for Muslim couples. I dunno. I wanna do too many things.

Anyway... putting oil in your hair really helps if it's damaged. My mom did it for me today since my grandma was out... I wish I could do it twice a week like she recommended, but I don't have time during the week. It's only on weekends. I've done it maybe 3 or 4 times so far and it's helped. Also, I tried that egg and olive oil thing that somebody on here posted... Salika? It helped!

I talk to other girls about marriage stuff but I don't go into detail and it's for figuring stuff out. I kind of wish I knew some things about guys and "marriage" before going into it but now people ask me questions. Making crude jokes in public though is unacceptable.

Glad the olive oil/egg helped! Next time I'm going to heat it before I put it in my hair because the heat is supposed to help infuse the good stuff into the hair.. and I'm gonna see how that works.

[onetspvanilla]

just don't heat it up too much, slightly scrambled eggs in hair aren't fun :P

[Salika]

Originally Posted by onetspvanilla

just don't heat it up too much, slightly scrambled eggs in hair aren't fun :P

haha good point

Another tip, to seal in the warmth is to put a shower cap over it