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Difference in what?
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Probably in the way she will treat the daughter-in-law. I agree with whoever said it takes both religion and education.
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Probably in the way she will treat the daughter-in-law. I agree with whoever said it takes both religion and education.
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I don't understand what education has to do with it. Some people are very educated in a traditional sense, but that doesn't necessarily have any bearing on how they treat people, their ideas about family etc. |
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I don't understand what education has to do with it. Some people are very educated in a traditional sense, but that doesn't necessarily have any bearing on how they treat people, their ideas about family etc.
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I think it has a lot to do with having an open mind and accepting, understanding, and learning from other people's point of views.
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most people think that an uneducated "jahil" mother-in-law might impose dumb rules and make paranoid assumptions. newsflash: even western-educated MILs are very capable of doing that  being open-minded, understanding, and empathetic aren't necessarily characteristics picked up during years of higher learning.
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most people think that an uneducated "jahil" mother-in-law might impose dumb rules and make paranoid assumptions. newsflash: even western-educated MILs are very capable of doing that being open-minded, understanding, and empathetic aren't necessarily characteristics picked up during years of higher learning. |
True, it's the same thing with husbands. I think you just have to find someone you are compatible with.
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most people think that an uneducated "jahil" mother-in-law might impose dumb rules and make paranoid assumptions. newsflash: even western-educated MILs are very capable of doing that being open-minded, understanding, and empathetic aren't necessarily characteristics picked up during years of higher learning. |
Exactly - education is not a predictive factor for this item. |
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I've just started to appreciate Ross......it has awesome stuff for a great bargain
Do you gals shop there?
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Whenever I'm in either South Cali or Northern VA definitely! Haven't really seen them anywhere else 
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Whenever I'm in either South Cali or Northern VA definitely! Haven't really seen them anywhere else |
add texas to the list........goodness, i found a variety of clothes for cheap that would've cost me a bundle elsewhere
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salaam ladies!
my msa's considering having a speaker named "gwendolyn simmons" come and speak about women in islam. i haven't heard of her and no one else has, except for this one non-muslim girl in our msa. has anyone heard of her or anything about her? particularly her stance on women in islam? i've googled a bit and the results don't seem that promising...
any help would be greatly apprecited. jazakAllah khair 
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add texas to the list........goodness, i found a variety of clothes for cheap that would've cost me a bundle elsewhere
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they have em in NC and fl too. I shop there sometimes, they've got great prices
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salaam ladies!
my msa's considering having a speaker named "gwendolyn simmons" come and speak about women in islam. i haven't heard of her and no one else has, except for this one non-muslim girl in our msa. has anyone heard of her or anything about her? particularly her stance on women in islam? i've googled a bit and the results don't seem that promising...
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i prolly wouldnt get a speaker named "gwendolyn" to begin with....
im prolly kidding
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i prolly wouldnt get a speaker named "gwendolyn" to begin with....
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thanks for the input, plops.
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