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IA when I speak to her next time, she isn't on now.
Oh sis thejellymill, can you add me to ur fb?  Thanks  .
Another thing, many girls throw swear words at each other when they are joking around. That doesn't go well with me. My friends and I don't call either other B*tch and such. What about you guys? |
Your friend is saying that now because getting married is a big thing, and naturally makes one nervous. She might find that in the heat of the moment all her plans go out the window though, and if they do I hope she won't feel ashamed or anything.
No, I don't swear at my friends, or anyone else. I do say d@mn a little more than I should though 
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IA when I speak to her next time, she isn't on now.
Oh sis thejellymill, can you add me to ur fb? Thanks .
Another thing, many girls throw swear words at each other when they are joking around. That doesn't go well with me. My friends and I don't call either other B*tch and such. What about you guys? |
curse words, never...its just too harsh.
my close friend calls me a funny word sometimes when I don't get the simplest things:
nincampoop 
haha has anyone else heard of it?
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curse words, never...its just too harsh.
my close friend calls me a funny word sometimes when I don't get the simplest things:
nincampoop
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my chemistry teacher calls us that. what does it mean? 
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me and my friends call each other kutti. and also kameeni. and sometimes saali. but that's about it. oh and also, stupid, dumb, jerk, loser, idiot, moron, and etc.. though they aren't swear words per se.  |
LOL yeah, we say stuff like that..though it's just as bad but doesn't sound as offensive as it does in English.
@ chotoo, I agree with you. She told me she was very scared, so that's probably why she was saying all that stuff to me. |
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nincompoop isn't a swear word, it's basically the same thing as calling you an idiot.
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nincompoop isn't a swear word, it's basically the same thing as calling you an idiot.
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well then my chem teacher is mean 
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nincompoop isn't a swear word, it's basically the same thing as calling you an idiot.
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OMG ZAKK!!!! one month!! i'm nervous for you!  totally afraid of all the hurting |
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my chemistry teacher calls us that. what does it mean? |
A person who has done something dumb.
hahaha my friend also calls me a numnut.
it sounds so much funnier out loud. 
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LOL yeah, we say stuff like that..though it's just as bad but doesn't sound as offensive as it does in English.
@ chotoo, I agree with you. She told me she was very scared, so that's probably why she was saying all that stuff to me. |
It is scary, to be quite honest. I really don't know how teenagers these days can be so casual about it
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Also, tell your friend to relax and just stay in the moment. I don't think it's fair for the girl or guy to arbitrarily declare when or where or how something that involves both of them should happen. Rather, they should both be considerate of each other... this would include dealing with fears realistically and also having realistic expectations of each other. She simply has to relax and enjoy how things play out; ironically, the more fearful you are, the worse it can be, because your body becomes inhibited. Concentrate on what is more exciting or romantic, and let things build off of that.
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It is scary, to be quite honest. I really don't know how teenagers these days can be so casual about it |
questions about the deed are like... #1 on the list of stuff my unmarried friends ask me... fear of the unknown i suppose. |
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OMG ZAKK!!!! one month!! i'm nervous for you! totally afraid of all the hurting |
lol. what hurting? my baby is coming via stork. or something. |
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lol. what hurting? my baby is coming via stork. or something.
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fear of the unknown!!!!
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in this case, fear of the known OWNS fear of the unknown. owwwwwwwwww.
Just kidding, labor is fun. Astaghfirullah, zister. Go make baby.
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in this case, fear of the known OWNS fear of the unknown. owwwwwwwwww.
Just kidding, labor is fun. Astaghfirullah, zister. Go make baby.
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Yet you're having another? Hehe
I didn't mean that she shouldn't ask questions of someone who knows. But, specifics about timing etc should really be between husband and wife in my opinion. I'm sure they'll be able to figure things out.... |
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