[heba]

hi ladies
im gettin a sad vibe from in here
hugs alllll around, i love yall

oh and my head hurts and i hate work, (had to throw in a complaint lol)

PS..YOURE ALL BEAUTIFUL

[Aida]

Originally Posted by jaani

I just wanna do something......maybe chop off my hair and then I might feel better

~j

Ohh, I used to do that whenever I felt annoyed or was suffocating from lack of change. So I'd get it chopped off and then feel like I had at least some control over my life. Of course the feeling only lasts a few hours/days and is followed by regret.

I hope you feel better and things settle down for you.

[the_only_one]

Originally Posted by jaani

I feel so stressed!! I'm trying my hardest to make something out of myself, even if its taking longer than expected, and my mum wants to get me married off by emotionally blackmailing me! To a guy that my sister rejected....I REFUSE to play second fiddle to anyone!!

I just wanna do something......maybe chop off my hair and then I might feel better

I wish my brother was still here to make my mum/everyone understand


Is this a bad week for the FPH girls? and dua'as all around

~j

drama marriage is common in very household dont stress at all..

my mom tried that once..by ``you know how many girls would die for such a gem``
and i`d brush off offers by saying ``Im still young and boys have cooties..and `

actually i still react in the same manner lol

and the only difference is time has turned tables around. now, my parents are not even considerign the latest rishtas ive got simply because they want me to concentrate in school and forget about boys at together..:mA lol:

whereas, the latest rishta kinda interest me..i think.. :

[sumiyia]

Originally Posted by jaani

I feel so stressed!! I'm trying my hardest to make something out of myself, even if its taking longer than expected, and my mum wants to get me married off by emotionally blackmailing me! To a guy that my sister rejected....I REFUSE to play second fiddle to anyone!!

I just wanna do something......maybe chop off my hair and then I might feel better

I wish my brother was still here to make my mum/everyone understand


Is this a bad week for the FPH girls? and dua'as all around

~j

:hugs: PM me if you wanna talk

[DramaRani]

Sunday iA, I'm seriously cleaning out my closet. I intend to give away everything I haven't worn in the past 6 months and stuff I don't intend on wearing this upcoming season.

(I'm in the process of cleaning my room for our party tomorrow. I just have way too much stuff. Alhumdulillah, for having it, but I definitely don't need it anymore.)

[sally]

good morning
I AM SOO SLEEPY. AHHHH. and sore. i just need like 12 hrs of sleep. straight
but i have to go to work. dammit

hopefully i can survive the day

[Ilikemyscarf]

yay, the weather's gone cold again.

[Ilikemyscarf]

Originally Posted by jaani

I feel so stressed!! I'm trying my hardest to make something out of myself, even if its taking longer than expected, and my mum wants to get me married off by emotionally blackmailing me! To a guy that my sister rejected....I REFUSE to play second fiddle to anyone!!

I just wanna do something......maybe chop off my hair and then I might feel better

I wish my brother was still here to make my mum/everyone understand


Is this a bad week for the FPH girls? and dua'as all around

~j

Hope you feel better don't let the marriage pressure get to you. it seems mothers and aunties just wait around until their daughter hits 19 to start blabbing on and on continuously about marriage. and here we are, working and going to school trying have a career and all they want us to do is have babies and stay home. NO ****ING THANKS. Not going down that road anytime soon.don't want to be like you

[lol_lol]

I am going to france with friends in two weeks yay

[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

I know i'm a bit late

Originally Posted by sally

oh i have a question for the married people too.

what kind of stuff is important to have in common with a potential spouse? like, i dont know..aside from religion/values blah blah..i mean like just stuff...interests..activities, etc..do people even look at that? or does it just kinda fall into place? i know a lot of newly married people for whom things arent so bad but it's really frustrating for both people in the relationship to spend quality time together because their idea of having fun isnt the same..


cuz i dont wanna get bored of somebody

I think you should generally find the same things fun( not ALL things, that's pretty impossible). I think your husband/wife should be your best friend, I don't see how it can work any other way, but different things work for different people. I think that's why i'm so happy in this isolated country, and i'm pretty much friend-less, but i'm happy with that cos mr.zzze and i go and just do random things and be dorky and it's fun

Originally Posted by Sugarberry

Married ladies...and Ladies who've been in multiple relationships...

how alike in either personality or physical aspects is your husband, similar to your father or brothers?

Is that old saying "girls marry guys like their fathers" ?

My husband and father are nothing alike alhamdulilah. My dad is an angry, beardless, black man and my husband is the exact opposite, alhamdulilah, masha Allah I don't think it'd work any other way as I'm an angry person, so two angry people would be explosive.

On second thoughts, my husband is the same as my dad is the sense that he's a people person, bends the rules and is a salesman typa guy. But apart from that..opposites

I'm going to go cook now

[Spice]

Not a good day

[DramaRani]

Usually I don't mind cleaning, but I just don't feel like doing it anymore.

[cheesy0strawberries]

Originally Posted by zzze

assalamu alaykum
My dad is an angry, beardless, black man and my husband is the exact opposite

What exactly is the opposite of a black man ?

[Purple_alien]

my dad hates me. I am sure of it. First he refuses to allow me to get married (Keeps telling me if I get married without his permission, I'm going to Hell) Then, he only looks in like 1 place. But whatever, MashaAllah, right? Well, now he tells me I can't go to Law School because If I do, I have to move out. I wanna punch him in his face right now! I'm still gonna go ahead with it, but his non support hurts, especially when he tells his kids they can do anything. He didn't even support me when I was getting my BA, now he's acting all proud and crap.