[iSHi]

Asvi, I don't think theres anything wrong with that. Especially since you're still getting to know eachother.

Laimuun, que pasa chica?! *hug*

[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

I don't think you should feel guilty about not wanting to live with ur in laws. I don't want to and I had to make that clear due to pressue being mounted on to live with them and in the END everyone got the message, alhamdulilah (alhamdulilah)!

[Asvi]

Originally Posted by zzze

assalamu alaykum

I don't think you should feel guilty about not wanting to live with ur in laws. I don't want to and I had to make that clear due to pressue being mounted on to live with them and in the END everyone got the message, alhamdulilah (alhamdulilah)!

Thanks everyone

even though i've already expressed my feelings to my hubby, i wont get to live on my own because that would harm my marriage, and i'm not gonna let some stupid thing like that ruin my relationship w/my hubby cuz i love him too much to lose him. so i'd live w/ my inlaws if it comes to that. my MIL has already told me that she'd rather live w/me than her other DIL.. so i have no choice. sad i know. sometimes it sucks to be really nice. lol

[Spice]

Originally Posted by Asvi

Thanks everyone

even though i've already expressed my feelings to my hubby, i wont get to live on my own because that would harm my marriage, and i'm not gonna let some stupid thing like that ruin my relationship w/my hubby cuz i love him too much to lose him. so i'd live w/ my inlaws if it comes to that. my MIL has already told me that she'd rather live w/me than her other DIL.. so i have no choice. sad i know. sometimes it sucks to be really nice. lol

Hmm, I come from a huge family, and most of us all live together back in the homeland. (But we have huge homes there too...I guess that makes a major difference in terms of privacy and stuff)
But I just wanted to say that you might be pleasantly surprised. Living with a family has many, many perks. Typically, everyone supports one another, there's division of chores/expense, and too many other things to name.

Just walk into it with a smile.
InshAllah it all works out for you.

[iTz_NoT_Me_iTzZu]

Originally Posted by Laimuun

asvi - that's not selfish at all. I've lived with my in laws and without and even though I love my in laws and they're seriously wonderful people, I much prefer living on my own.

and in other news.. I'm in a crappy mood.

Aww hope you feel better, and happy birthday!




you guys make me sick with your cute husband stories [/JEALOUSY]

[ChotooMotoo]

Well, I took the exam. It was really hard. I for sure mised 6 points, becuase I couldn't answer the questions in the alloted time. I don't feel that bad though, becuase a) I'm really confident about my other answers b) lots of people couldn't even finish. So, I'm hoping that in the end I get a B in the class.

[Asvi]

Originally Posted by Laimuun

asvi - that's not selfish at all. I've lived with my in laws and without and even though I love my in laws and they're seriously wonderful people, I much prefer living on my own.

and in other news.. I'm in a crappy mood.

awww..feel better

i've also lived w/my inlaws and now i'm getting the chance to live on my own. and i agree w/what laimuun said..i feel the same way.

and i agree with you Spice, that living w/in-laws has many perks, especially when you have kids. Inshallah we'll see what happens.

there's this other thing thats really eating me away..and yes its realted to inlaws..hahaha.. its really annoying the crap outta me.

[Ilikemyscarf]

Asians are supposed to be smart. I'm an exception.

[Asvi]

anyone done snorkeling??? how was it???

i dont know how to swim. so i can't do it.

[ChotooMotoo]

Originally Posted by Asvi

anyone done snorkeling??? how was it???

i dont know how to swim. so i can't do it.

I did it in a swimming pool when I took swimming lessons as a kid. It can be really difficult to do, becuase you have to convince yourself that it's okay to breath, even though your face is under water.

[iSHi]

I'm so tired but can't sleep.

[Pushpa]

Originally Posted by thejellymill

ok so now im totally in the mood for cute husband stories. I'm sure you guys have lots, so please share!

Here's mine. When we were engaged and he worked in Saudi he told me he was going to a rig where they would have no internet or phone access (this had happened before so I believed him). A few days later my mom told me we are going out to lunch with a friend from her office which I thought was kind of weird. Once we were seated mom told me she forgot her wallet in the car and told me to get it. When I went out I saw a red rose and card taped to the drivers side window of our van. I barely had time to process it all before he popped out from behind the car!!

I was so embarrassed that I ran away and wouldn't let him get within 10 feet of me and the rest of the time I was so self-conscious that I could hardly eat in front of him

I was away at my parents' for the past 2 weeks and got back on Monday. We'd had a bit of a tiff over the phone the day before and I was still partially angry at him. Anyway, he couldn't meet me at the station as usual because he was teaching classes all day, so I made my own way and arrived home around 3pm. I was intending to cook him a nice dinner for the evening to make up for being mad at him before, but when I got home I found that dinner was already cooked so all I had to do was reheat it when he came in

Another time, I don't know how this rates on the 'cute' scale but anyway: He always walks to and from work, and with the Scottish weather being so unpredictable he always wears this waterproof jacket like the type mountain climbers wear, and sometimes the waterproof pants too. One particularly stormy evening I answered the door to find him up to his eyeballs in waterproofs, with just the blank reflection of his rain-spattered glasses staring back at me, looking for all the world like something out of a slasher movie...with a bunch of flowers in his hand. It was soooo random - and sweet, I suppose, in a way - I just didn't know whether to laugh or cry, or run away screaming

[Caramel_Candy]

Originally Posted by iTz_NoT_Me_iTzZu

Aww hope you feel better, and happy birthday!




you guys make me sick with your cute husband stories [/JEALOUSY]

Aww don't be jealous..Say Mash'Allah (I know your ranting) You'll have your own amazing husband one day, iA


Happy Birthday Laimunn

[HijabiPrincezz]

im so in the mood to go to the beach.... but i have tests and tests and tests...sigh...3 more days until spring break!!!

and hi laimuuunnnn, call me back

[sona]

Originally Posted by Asvi

anyone done snorkeling??? how was it???
i dont know how to swim. so i can't do it.

snorkeling is awesome
we went snorkeling in maui on our honeymoon, it was soooo much fun. and afeef didn't know how to swim at the time, but he did fine.

i, on the other hand, can swim like a dolphin.
kinda but not really. but i can swim well. mA.