[thejellymill]

Originally Posted by Timbit

What's the big deal?
We always comment on whether a groom is good-looking or not (and brides too, of course).

If people at my wedding or anywhere said my husband is good-looking, I'd take it as a compliment. Like "Yeah... but he's mine. " Just laugh it off.

It's not nice to make it obvious. On the other hand, if it's like an aunty then no big deal! I had two aunties make comments to me, one said "your fiance is very hott." hahahaha an aunty said hott . I would feel just like zzze if I heard pervy comments from other girls about my husband

[sumiyia]

Originally Posted by Timbit

What's the big deal?
We always comment on whether a groom is good-looking or not (and brides too, of course).

If people at my wedding or anywhere said my husband is good-looking, I'd take it as a compliment. Like "Yeah... but he's mine. " Just laugh it off.

Spice: Preggers?

i think its one thing when its your friend or something... but random girls?

[heba]

im in an extremely crappy mood...extremely......

ladies...this song is wow.......

YouTube - Lesson Learned - Alicia Keys (lyrics&pictures included)

one girl commented

This is a beautiful song. What makes it so good is that it can relate to just about anyone who listens to it. The broad message is amazing. It does not just have to refer to love between two people but anything that you love. Brilliant song, words can explain who powerful it is. Mad propz...

shes right.

sigh..

[shadha]

Oh man Timbit. I busted into this thread with a quickness thinking there was a juicy fight going on over husband gazing.


shadha-

[thejellymill]

Oh man I think I laughed too much tonight, I keep getting side stitches . I'm also starting to feel depressed that I'm moving to India, it just hit me...3 months until I leave and I wont see my mom or sister or friends for at least 3 months. Well I'll see the two friends that are going to India too but it's not the same! I'm gonna miss my mama

[the_only_one]

congrats laimunnnnnnnnn for the baby princess.

mabrook!!!

[thejellymill]

Originally Posted by thejellymill

Oh man I think I laughed too much tonight, I keep getting side stitches . I'm also starting to feel depressed that I'm moving to India, it just hit me...3 months until I leave and I wont see my mom or sister or friends for at least 3 months. Well I'll see the two friends that are going to India too but it's not the same! I'm gonna miss my mama

I'm stupid and need to shut up. I should be happy that I'm going to finally live with my husband. Ungrateful beast.

I need to slap myself. Alhamdulillah for everything.

[heba]

everytime im feeling down for no good reason i go into affas thread, make a quick duaa for her, and then remind myself about how PETY some of the things i get so caught up in are. really. i need to get over myself.

i have NO reason to be crying right now. alhamdulillah for everything.

[shadha]

jellymill: I'm stupid and need to shut up. I should be happy that I'm going to finally live with my husband. Ungrateful beast.

It's bitter sweet...there's no shame or ungratefulness in missing your family.


shadha-

[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

Originally Posted by thejellymill

What the hell's that all about You're enough to fill 4 slots and then some, knock their teeth out!

lol, the aunties are well harami at weddings, made me puke. Saudi girls are such the haraam, what annoys me is when they're like a receptionist or something and i'm like right there and she's answering my question looking at him. I usually just stop talking and wait for them to regain brain activity, then raise an eyebrow. My eyebrows can be scary, i have the villain type ones. Apparently they even twitch to th beat of a song when i'm sleeping.

Originally Posted by sumiyia

wth??? girls do that?

yeahhh, they do. Especially if they're behind the protection of a niqaab, they think no one can see. It's like drivers who pick their nose.


can't sleeeppp so i've written a the weekly shopping list and the dishes im going to (iA) cook this week.

[thejellymill]

Originally Posted by zzze

Apparently they even twitch to th beat of a song when i'm sleeping.

That had me laughing out loud! hahaha.

Man I'd be so ticked. When my husband was in Saudi he told me the guys around him were perverted sickos. Now I guess we know some Saudi girls have the same sorta mindset

[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

yeah, Saudi is so messed up. I know it's the ''culture'' for the men to hold hands, but u can diffrentiate the gay ones from the straight ones. Some of my husbands students get chased by boys/men on a regular basis, and some even curbcrawl if the boys are walking anywhere. Subhan Allah, many horrible stories in Saudi from people we know. It's best to keep yourself and your family close in saudi (riyadh) and not to trust people too easily. Sounds sad but you can't be to careful here, esp as a foreigner.

This hadith always comes to mind when living in saudi: Ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with him) reported the Prophet (Peace be upon him) as saying: "Oh God, bless us in our Syria; O God, bless us in our Yemen." Those present said: "And in our Najd, O Messenger of God!" But he said, "O God, bless us in our Syria; O God, bless us in our Yemen." Those present said, "And in our Najd, O Messenger of God!" Ibn Umar said that he thought that he said on the third occasion: "Earthquakes and dissensions (fitnah) are there, and there shall arise the horn of the devil." (Sahih al-Bukhari).

With regards to the saudi boys and girlsgirls: this super segregation does nothing but spur them on. The email address on back of cars, phone numbers being thrown into one another cars..and as we saw today..leaving their number on the table they're eating at, then leaving so the boys can pick it up...also, never go to the saudi network on facebook, it's the haram of the haram. The saudis dont have to leave saudi for their ''appetisers'', apartments rented by the hour are common here.

[thejellymill]

dear God that's terrible! He told me about the homosexuality there too...and I'm guessing by the use of your word 'appetizer' you read the part of my post before I deleted it. He told me many other horror stories but since he wasn't around anyone but men and usually then only on the rigs, he didn't get to see everything alhamdulillah. They even invited him to Bahrain once I think and thats when the comment about wives/girlfriends being main course and Bahraini prostitutes being appetizers came up

[iSHi]

I complain too much. Please start negging me. Thanks

[thejellymill]

oh yummayyy here's what I cooked last week. Potato cutleeets! Yummy delicious yummyness mA. They look kinda squishy but they really werent. My friend taught me how to make them, she's an awesome cook.



Does anyone know how to make the kind with meat in the middle? How do you keep it there?