[vanillawafer]

Originally Posted by the_only_one

because the girls are still completing their degrees. and they live away from the home and the guy lives at her home town. lowe is blind i tell ya. girls can't concentrate during lectures and in retrospect its' having a bad effect on me too.

I meant they can do the nikkah now and reception later thing everyone was talking about earlier. That way if they spend time alone or cuddle, it won't be wrong.

[iTz_NoT_Me_iTzZu]

Originally Posted by iSHi

okay so the guy isn't a total stranger. He e-mailed with my dad a lot of times(close family friend). So for him to e-mail him and mention that me and him started talking didn't seem like a big deal. He also doens't live here so e-mail was the most practical. his merely stating his intention (to marry me), not asking for my hand. I dont think I'll ever come on here asking for advise on guys again.

aww, don't feel that way! I didn't mean to sound harsh, it's just that you need to protect yourself from getting too deeply involved feeling-wise. If he never really ends up asking, or if your dad refuses his proposal again then you'll be crushed. It's his job to take the initiative and ask for your properly. Also if your dad hasn't given the green light yet it probably isn't the best idea to keep talking to him. Anyway inshaAllah Khair

[the_only_one]

Originally Posted by iSHi

okay so the guy isn't a total stranger. He e-mailed with my dad a lot of times(close family friend). So for him to e-mail him and mention that me and him started talking didn't seem like a big deal. He also doens't live here so e-mail was the most practical. his merely stating his intention (to marry me), not asking for my hand. I dont think I'll ever come on here asking for advise on guys again.

the_only_one, would this romatic movie take place at home with other people around?! I think that's even pushing it, but better than them being "alone" in the theater.

sweetheart dont take it too personally. we're not trying to hurt your feelings
i guess it make sense that he' proposed through email considering he lives far away or if he communicates with your father via email. so it'd be his way of getting the message across. but anyhoo, from experience dont fall into crack...just a mere promise with weightless words... , take your steps carefully and stay away from heartbreak.s boys say a lot of things when it comes to actually doing that, they almost suck at all of them. if u knw what i mean.

well the movie was to be at a theatre, if he comes down to the town, but since she's a close friend of mine, i dont think i'll allow that. \\

Originally Posted by vanillawafer

I meant they can do the nikkah now and reception later thing everyone was talking about earlier. That way if they spend time alone or cuddle, it won't be wrong.

according to them, "it won't work out" i dont know what they mean by that. khair.

im off to sleep.

[iTz_NoT_Me_iTzZu]

Originally Posted by the_only_one

sweetheart dont take it too personally. we're not trying to hurt your feelings
i guess it make sense that he' proposed through email considering he lives far away or if he communicates with your father via email. so it'd be his way of getting the message across. but anyhoo, from experience dont fall into crack...just a mere promise with weightless words... , take your steps carefully and stay away from heartbreak.s boys say a lot of things when it comes to actually doing that, they almost suck at all of them. if u knw what i mean.

well the movie was to be at a theatre, if he comes down to the town, but since she's a close friend of mine, i dont think i'll allow that.

truer words were never spoken

[the_only_one]

Originally Posted by iTz_NoT_Me_iTzZu

truer words were never spoken

al hamdoulilah, ive been proposed by many guys..the first thing that hits me right away is

'cooties' it is such a symbolic term...i can write 1000 words on it... so i refer them to my parents to disinfect the cooties..lol

[sally]

oh myyyy. all this talk about a boy asking your dad for you is making my heart FLUTTTTTTTTTER

mostly cuz i just watched jodha akbar. the BEST MOVIE IN THE WHOLE ENTIRE WORLD can we say romantic X34904324032324

[Salika]

Originally Posted by the_only_one

me too.

more topics on boys stuff. my friends and I were discussing boys () since some of them have found the perfect guy mA. and soon to be engaged(not to be confused with nikkafied) said that they'll be "ok" with cuddling with their guy during a rommantic movie. thats a big 'no- no' for me may be 'coz i am a biggest traditionalist or perhaps a lil skeptical about the future. but would anyone else agree to that? their point of argument was that since they knw thats definitely the guy and both families knw..the only thing that is keepign them apart is the nikkah. i mean...can't we just control it a lil?

You know I was all iffy about PDA but I learned when you get your nikkah and you're so in love sometimes honestly just forget you're in public.

When me and my fiance-hubby are together we're always holding hands or I have my arm around his... it's like, if he's not in touching distance I feel he's too far away. Even if he leaves the room for a minute I get sad. So ya, it's really easy to say now no PDA, but that might change. Now I'm not saying you have to to kiss in public, but find yourself attached to him physically, it's normal.

Speaking of my ridiculously masha'Allah masha'Allah amazing fiance-husband, I told him about my hair and he was so patient with me. "It's ok, they'll fix it, it's not a big deal" and he was telling me how it could be worse and he still thinks I'm pretty.

2.5 more weeks until he comes

[sumiyia]

Originally Posted by Salika

You know I was all iffy about PDA but I learned when you get your nikkah and you're so in love sometimes honestly just forget you're in public.

When me and my fiance-hubby are together we're always holding hands or I have my arm around his... it's like, if he's not in touching distance I feel he's too far away. Even if he leaves the room for a minute I get sad. So ya, it's really easy to say now no PDA, but that might change. Now I'm not saying you have to to kiss in public, but find yourself attached to him physically, it's normal.

Speaking of my ridiculously masha'Allah masha'Allah amazing fiance-husband, I told him about my hair and he was so patient with me. "It's ok, they'll fix it, it's not a big deal" and he was telling me how it could be worse and he still thinks I'm pretty.

2.5 more weeks until he comes

awwwwww! i'm the same

i just bugged my husband for like eternity, asking him if he would be my constant... and if he'd pick up the phone on eid-eve 6 years from now when i call him from the future :LOSTgeek:

[iTz_NoT_Me_iTzZu]

I need someone to look over my resume and not laugh. Thanks

[sally]

Originally Posted by sumiyia

awwwwww! i'm the same

i just bugged my husband for like eternity, asking him if he would be my constant... and if he'd pick up the phone on eid-eve 6 years from now when i call him from the future :LOSTgeek:

LMFAO.. that's the dorkiest and funniest thing i've read in a decade bahahaahahaa

EWw at sumiyia and salika..married people are sooo barf

(jk..mA yall is cute stuff)

[Ilikemyscarf]

Originally Posted by the_only_one

. boys say a lot of things when it comes to actually doing that, they almost suck at all of them. if u knw what i mean.
.

Words don't come with a price tag.

[Ilikemyscarf]

My legs hurt.

[moonlightrose]

Originally Posted by Ilikemyscarf

My legs hurt.

my tummy hurts Its not like I ate anything unusual.

[jaani]

Originally Posted by moonlightrose

my tummy hurts Its not like I ate anything unusual.

Then maybe its that

~j