[fatima]

yeah smoking is really unattractive. and messy and smelly. plus smoker coughs are gross and annoying.

[hefty]

Originally Posted by Sugarberry

Ok question girls ....how many of you single girls would consider somone who is practically good in every other sense...but smokes?

and do you feel like its within your right to ask him to quit?

also, what kind of influence would it be on the kids? What would stop them from taking on smoking, if daddy's doing it then why can't they?

sorry just some strong thoughts i have, b/c i know someone who smokes- 1 of his sons has asthma (and has had some severe attacks even later in his life), the other one now smokes too .

[meri jaan]

Originally Posted by Sugarberry

Ok question girls ....how many of you single girls would consider somone who is practically good in every other sense...but smokes?

and do you feel like its within your right to ask him to quit?

smoking is a bad habit but so is picking your nose..if you're interested in him, ask him to quit..even he knows how harmful it is..not to mention unattractive.

if he drank it would be a different story..but it it depends on your view of smoking in islam.

[fatima]

Originally Posted by hefty

also, what kind of influence would it be on the kids? What would stop them from taking on smoking, if daddy's doing it then why can't they?

i agree with the sentiment, but i think having a parent who is a smoker can be a deterrant too. my dad has been a heavy smoker as long as i can remember and my siblings and i think its disgusting and would never smoke and end up addicted and coughing like my dad. guess it depends though, who knows.

[Asvi]

Originally Posted by fatima

my dad has been a heavy smoker as long as i can remember and my siblings and i think its disgusting and would never smoke and end up addicted and coughing like my dad. guess it depends though, who knows.

ditto to this.

[zakk]

Last night I dreamt that I gave birth to quintuplets.

[Spice]

Originally Posted by zakk

Last night I dreamt that I gave birth to quintuplets.

Awesome. How did it feel?

[zakk]

Originally Posted by Spice

Awesome. How did it feel?

like i done lost my mind


my doctor was all, "oh, they must have been hiding during the sonogram!" and then I was like, how do I feed 5 babies? And then I attacked babiesrus in search of four more carseats.

[sally]

i'm really allergic to smokers.

it would suck to be allergic to your potential husband

'hey! can you just sit in the audience when we get married? i dont think i can stay alive next to you'

i would however marry a guy if he was smokin' hot. hardyyyyyyy har har

[jaani]

Originally Posted by sally

i would however marry a guy if he was smokin' hot. hardyyyyyyy har har

I completely agree with this sentiment, although I had still try my best to get him off it......I dislike not just the smell, but I get too sensitive and start coughing real bad because I'm unable to breathe

~j

[moonlightrose]

Originally Posted by Sugarberry

Ok question girls ....how many of you single girls would consider somone who is practically good in every other sense...but smokes?

and do you feel like its within your right to ask him to quit?

no way!
smoking just gets on my last nerves. I can't *stand* being anywhere near people who smoke.

[iSHi]

i have a migrane. Second day straight.

Smokers are disgusting. It's just another form of suicide if you ask me.

[displaced]

Originally Posted by iSHi

i have a migrane. Second day straight.

Smokers are disgusting. It's just another form of suicide if you ask me.

excedrin migraine

[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

love the smell of smoke sometimes only certain brands i think tho?! don't know, dont know any smokers anymre both my parents used to smoke and gave up, i found i become addicted to the waft of ''secret''cigeratte smell...but that was lke yearrrsss ago.

i dreamt i had a baby and it poked one of my eyes out ( i had four)

p.s i think phd girl is preggy too

[nooni]

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