[zzze]

Originally Posted by sally

you're right. i should get over it but i get asked about my relationship status every single freakin turn of my life. school/class/group mates. co workers. home...everywhere.

and then it just gets me worried about not being worried enough. like am i gonna miss the boat. are people warning me about my potential single loner loser forever future? i start panicking about not being freaked out enough for myself. if that makes sense

i dont think its really healthy to be surrounded by people who constantly make you feel less for not being with somebody. i dont have low self esteem because of not being in a relationship and i dont like to doubt my ability to end up with a husband and all that junk..

then again, it's just life..everybody just wants me to be happy or whatever.

sally, I'd say you were worried enough lol!

relax, it'll happen when it's going to happen and insha Allah for the best. It's the end of and be all (did that even make any sense, think i said it too many times lol)

Until then, enjoy hanging out with ur friends and not wishing u were with someone else

[sally]

i really dont worry unless people make me worried. BUT YOU KNOW, i just flipped through my agenda, and i dont really have time for a man

i have so much freakingggggggggg work to get done. AHHHHh and just one day off. and i gotta work like 45 hrs next week. and school for 15


inhale EXHALE.

[sumiyia]

so sally, any good news?!?!

[iSHi]

Thanks for the duas ladies. My Grandma has been released. She had another stroke. iA Khair.

[Timbit]

Originally Posted by sally

i must just really suck at being single.

END WEEKLY MARRIAGE HARASSMENT RANT #34824093892

More like daily.

Dude, for the last time... you're only 20. You're far from expiring. Actually, there is no such thing as expiring. You're a person, not a good that needs to be sold. You'll find somebody when the time is right and get married when Allah wills it. And when it happens, it'll be out of the blue when you least expect it. In the meantime, just relax about it.

In other news... SufiBoy helps kids in "the ghetto".

[Spice]

Originally Posted by Timbit

In other news... SufiBoy helps kids in "the ghetto".

but more importantly, is he rich and good looking?

[iSHi]

Originally Posted by Spice

but more importantly, is he rich and good looking?

You forgot "beard".

[Timbit]

Originally Posted by Spice

but more importantly, is he rich and good looking?

Good-looking: very! Tall and very distinctive features and... oh my.
Beard too, kind of. Not full-on beard but stubble, more like. More than stubble, less than beard. Goatee sometimes. I like facial hair.

I lower my gaze though.

Rich, not so much. Helping kids in the ghetto doesn't pay well, you know.

[iTz_NoT_Me_iTzZu]

Originally Posted by sally

i dont think its really healthy to be surrounded by people who constantly make you feel less for not being with somebody..

I don't think so either. Try zoning out when they talk to you

[Spice]

Originally Posted by iSHi

You forgot "beard".

I'm into the rugged look.

[iSHi]

Originally Posted by Timbit

Good-looking: very! Tall and very distinctive features and... oh my.
Beard too, kind of. Not full-on beard but stubble, more like. More than stubble, less than beard. Goatee sometimes. I like facial hair.

I lower my gaze though.

Rich, not so much. Helping kids in the ghetto doesn't pay well, you know.

That must've been one LONG HARD first look than.

I'd ask smething else...but i'll just IM you laters.

[SweetLilSamosa]

make du'a

[sally]

ok thanks for the support guys. omg sweetlilsamosa, sthu and get out...like NOW.

so this morning, while still deep asleep.. i wake up cuz my left calf had this INSANE muscle pain. and i mean IVE NEVER hurt like that before. it was soooo freaky. the pain woke me up. and it lasted all of 5 seconds and was gone. CREEPY. so im trying to figure out what happened exactly. was i dreaming or what. is there something wrong with my leg. it feels fine right now tho.

weird, weird weird.

[displaced]

you know you're procrastinating when you count the number of days you've been in school and days you have left.

[displaced]

Originally Posted by sally

you're right. i should get over it but i get asked about my relationship status every single freakin turn of my life. school/class/group mates. co workers. home...everywhere.

and then it just gets me worried about not being worried enough. like am i gonna miss the boat. are people warning me about my potential single loner loser forever future? i start panicking about not being freaked out enough for myself. if that makes sense

i dont think its really healthy to be surrounded by people who constantly make you feel less for not being with somebody. i dont have low self esteem because of not being in a relationship and i dont like to doubt my ability to end up with a husband and all that junk..

then again, it's just life..everybody just wants me to be happy or whatever.

so make a joke out of it.

say "yeah, my life has no value. I'll go stand on a street corner and ask the first man I see to marry me."

when my mother used to harass me about getting married, I used to tell her I wanted to marry an italian muslim and was going to travel to italy, find a masjid, and stand outside with a sign.