Female Personal Hygiene

sally · #**4171** (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 10:18 PM

yesterday i randomly had this crazy urge to add yet another major to my 2 existant majors (a subject that really interests me) and become a career driven woman who never spends time at home and never intends to

hella weird. i just wanted to do it all of a sudden and had no idea why i was feeling that way. like an earthquake..and the aftershocks i can still feel.

ChotooMotoo · #**4172** (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Sugarberry

are you for kids?

doing what? (I kid, I like kids)

Ilikemyscarf · #**4173** (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 10:25 PM

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Originally Posted by heba

i dont know if this is gunna sound immature (it will lol), but when i hear kids cry i seriously either want to put a muzzle on them, or throw them somewhere, or punch myself in the face or rip my eardrums out.

it is by far one of the worst sounds EVER (to me).

plus, i think having kids will ruin my life. i like to do random, spontaneous things, and if ihave a kid i cant. i feel like it totally will inhibit me from doing what i want, and i am pretty selfish, so i dont want anything to stop me from doing what i want. i want to travel. and i want to work. if i have kids ill feel like my 50,000$ spent on university will go to waste.

oh and plus im terrified to death of childbirth.

those are my main reasons.

You're not alone.

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Originally Posted by Sugarberry

are you for kids?

I want kids, but i'm not sure when I want them. even now, sometimes i really really want a baby. I duno why I feel like that? but then , i'm like ugh what was I thinking.

Spice · #**4174** (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 10:33 PM

Wow, we all have serious girlfriend problems.

Sugarberry · #**4175** (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 10:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Spice

Wow, we all have serious girlfriend problems.

Im working on a theory that all major drama's between friends in some way ties back to the opposite sex.

iSHi · #**4176** (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Sugarberry

Im working on a theory that all major drama's between friends in some way ties back to the opposite sex.

That's sadly true.

sumiyia · #**4177** (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 10:48 PM

i'm very similar to sally. i feel like i've got the friends that i need. it takes too long to get to the level of friendship that i have now and i dont want to have to go through it all over again. surprisingly, i've never had a fight with any of my friends, ever, alhamdulillah. i pick 'em well

iTz_NoT_Me_iTzZu · #**4178** (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 11:08 PM

I can relate to whoever said they don't care enough to make new friends. I just moved to a new city and I've made ZERO effort to really make friends because I just don't care.

heba · #**4179** (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Sugarberry

Im working on a theory that all major drama's between friends in some way ties back to the opposite sex.

i support this theory 100%

sally · #**4180** (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Sugarberry

Im working on a theory that all major drama's between friends in some way ties back to the opposite sex.

that's a ridiculous generalization. i've never ever had drama with my close friends over the opposite sex and know a lot of similar people.

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Originally Posted by iTz_NoT_Me_iTzZu

I can relate to whoever said they don't care enough to make new friends. I just moved to a new city and I've made ZERO effort to really make friends because I just don't care.

whoever said? like i'm a nobody?

thanks.

jk btw i've known you on the internet for almost like a decade now or something, i think..right?

i think you've moved around a lot too

iTz_NoT_Me_iTzZu · #**4181** (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 11:28 PM

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Originally Posted by sally

jk btw i've known you on the internet for almost like a decade now or something, i think..right?

i think you've moved around a lot too

You'll have to excuse me I'm barely conscious

and yeah I moved around a lotish, and YES we've known eachother online forever! isn't that weird? going alll the way back to like soundvision. We need to meet up sometime forrealz

Timbit · #**4182** (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 11:49 PM

I don't want kids either. I mean, eventually sure, but not for a long time still.
I want to live my life before I settle down and become all responsible. I mean, I'm not irresponsible now, but you are young only once. And kids are a huuuuge responsibility.

My parents talk about retiring early to Pakistan though and maybe doing the snowbird thing and spending six months there and six here. So in that case, they'd leave my baby brother with me. I heart him and would totally become his legal guardian.

He's the cutest accesory ever, heh. Of course he won't be so cute once he's older and more annoying, but still...

jaani · #**4183** (**permalink**) 01-24-2008, 01:09 AM

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Originally Posted by heba

i dont know if this is gunna sound immature (it will lol), but when i hear kids cry i seriously either want to put a muzzle on them, or throw them somewhere, or punch myself in the face or rip my eardrums out.

it is by far one of the worst sounds EVER (to me).

plus, i think having kids will ruin my life. i like to do random, spontaneous things, and if ihave a kid i cant. i feel like it totally will inhibit me from doing what i want, and i am pretty selfish, so i dont want anything to stop me from doing what i want. i want to travel. and i want to work. if i have kids ill feel like my 50,000$ spent on university will go to waste.

oh and plus im terrified to death of childbirth.

those are my main reasons.

Personally, I would love to start a family within a year of getting married, Inshallah

I've this "plan" of having kids early because when I'm like 40-45, the oldest would be around the 20's and I think thats uber cool.....don't ask me my reasons

Although, I'm as well terrified of childbirth, but then thats kinda like no pain, no gain

But maybe you would like to have kids when you're older and more wiser and when you've "settled" down in life...no?

I'm not so career oriented and I'm not so traditional - a balance of both, if you will

Note: A nice self-reflection of all the FPH girls

~j

iSHi · #**4184** (**permalink**) 01-24-2008, 01:13 AM

I want my first kids before 23.iA.

displaced · #**4185** (**permalink**) 01-24-2008, 04:19 AM

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Originally Posted by heba

i dont know if this is gunna sound immature (it will lol), but when i hear kids cry i seriously either want to put a muzzle on them, or throw them somewhere, or punch myself in the face or rip my eardrums out.

it is by far one of the worst sounds EVER (to me).

plus, i think having kids will ruin my life. i like to do random, spontaneous things, and if ihave a kid i cant. i feel like it totally will inhibit me from doing what i want, and i am pretty selfish, so i dont want anything to stop me from doing what i want. i want to travel. and i want to work. if i have kids ill feel like my 50,000$ spent on university will go to waste.

oh and plus im terrified to death of childbirth.

those are my main reasons.

yeah..I agree. except that your $50,000 is my $200,000.