[zakk]

yeah, you can tell because the movements have a definite rhythm

[lol_lol]

i hate how my so called friend goes out clubbing and does no work, and even though i have so much to deal with at home i still work my ass off even if i have to stay up all night. Then the next day she have the nerve to copy my work, i mean i will help a friend out but when she puts no effort and copies it and then goes out partying.

[heba]

the worst is when you feel like everyone is moving on with their life except you. when you make every effort to see friends you havent seen in a while, but it never works out.and you feel like they dont really care.

and when they do want to hang out with you and you make plans, some stupid sh-t cmoes up and plans get cancelled

im so stressed out right now and i feel likei have no one to talk to. no one has time or energy to listen to me b-tch and complain about my life.

[zakk]

Originally Posted by heba

the worst is when you feel like everyone is moving on with their life except you. when you make every effort to see friends you havent seen in a while, but it never works out.and you feel like they dont really care.

and when they do want to hang out with you and you make plans, some stupid sh-t cmoes up and plans get cancelled

im so stressed out right now and i feel likei have no one to talk to. no one has time or energy to listen to me b-tch and complain about my life.

[fatima]

sometimes you mean to call and keep in touch with friends, but life gets in the way and before you know it, an obscene amount of time has passed and it feels weird to call because you feel bad about not calling that whole time and not really having an explanation as to why except that you are forgetful, and youre not sure if the other person is pissed off about it. so basically, i suck as a friend sometimes.

what my point was, if the friendship is important to you, suck it up and call her. you might think shes pissed off, but she might be thinking the same thing about you, and you could be losing precious time in the process.

now i need to take my own advice and call a bunch of my friends that ive been neglecting.

[iSHi]

Hm....I guess I should let things be. It sucks, but I guess thats growing up, right? If anything I'll msg her on facebook or send her an e-mail wishing her the best and theres no hard feelings on my part. Thanks ladies.

[Sugarberry]

...or you could get new friends.

[Spice]

Speaking of friends moving on. I kind of disappeared from the friend/society circle for like 2 years, and now anytime i run into someone I havent seen for a while, they ask what I've been up to, whats been going on and i have nothing to say

[sumiyia]

Originally Posted by fatima

sometimes you mean you call and keep in touch with friends, but life gets in the way and before you know it, an obscene amount of time has passed and it feels weird to call because you feel bad about not calling that whole time and not really having an explanation as to why except that you are forgetful, and youre not sure if the other person is pissed off about it. so basically, i suck as a friend sometimes.

what my point was, if the friendship is important to you, suck it up and call her. you might think shes pissed off, but she might be thinking the same thing about you, and you could be losing precious time in the process.

now i need to take my own advice and call a bunch of my friends that ive been neglecting.

omg story of my life.

[ChotooMotoo]

Originally Posted by zakk

THE VIRTUES OF PREGNANCY
......

Don't despair, the rewards of pregnancy aren't restricted to those who carry their children to full term:

In al-Tirmidhi, Ahmad, and others: "Whoever of my Community have two forerunners [farataan=children who died early], Allah enters them Paradise." `A'isha said, Allah be well-pleased with her, "What about a single forerunner?" The Prophet replied, upon him peace, "And whoever has a single forerunner, you gifted woman!" She said, "And whoever has none?" He replied, "I am the forerunner of my Community. They endure nothing greater than my loss." Look how he wants everyone to reap the greatest benefit - upon him blessings and peace! {And We never sent you but as a mercy to the worlds} (21:107).

In Ahmad, al-Tirmidhi, and Ibn Majah, the Prophet said, upon him peace: "Whoever sends forth three children that never reached puberty, they will be for him [and her] a strong fortress [in the hereafter]." Abu Dharr said, "I sent forth two." The Prophet said, upon him peace, "And two." Ubay ibn Ka`b said, "I sent forth one." The Prophet said, upon him peace, "And one; but that is only [subject to SABR] at the first shock." From Ibn Mas`ud.

In the Musnad of `Abd ibn Humayd from Mu`adh, the Prophet said, upon him peace: "No two Muslims lost three children except Allah will cause the two parents to enter Paradise through the favor of His mercy toward them." They said, "What about two, Messenger of Allah?" He said, "Two also." They said, "And one?" He said, "[Even] the miscarried child will certainly drag its mother [and father, see below] with its umbilical cord to Paradise!"

The Prophet said, upon him peace, "The miscarried child will pester its glorious and mighty Lord for His entering its two parents into the Fire until it is told, 'O miscarried child that pesters its Lord! Enter your father and mother into Paradise.' Then it will drag them with its umbilical cord until it makes them enter Paradise." Ibn Majah and Abu Ya`la from `Ali.

And again, "By the One in Whose hand is my soul, truly the miscarried child will certainly drag its mother with its umbilical cord to Paradise, provided one expects recompense [for SABR]." Ibn Majah and Ahmad from Mu`adh.

And he said, upon him peace: "Your little ones are the larvas (da`aamees) of Paradise. They will meet their parents and grab them by their garments or their hands to no end other than that Allah will enter them Paradise." Sahih Muslim.

"I swear that a miscarried child of mine I send forth before me is more beloved to me than [raising] a mounted knight that survives me." Ibn Majah from Abu Hurayra.

The only time Fudayl ibn `Iyad was ever seen smiling was after the death of his child and his reply to those around him was: "Allah loved something and I love what Allah loved."

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Note: I'm fine. The above post does not reflect any recent happenings in my life, though it was comforting to me at one time.

[ChotooMotoo]

Originally Posted by zakk

I failed my 1 hour glucose tolerance test and must now go and spend three hours at the lab drinking a nasty glucose drink on an empty stomach and getting blood drawn 4 times.

So, are they gunna give you an IV and do it that way?

Sorry to hear you failed your test

[zzze]

asslamau alaykum

Originally Posted by Spice

sally, your obsession with marriage is getting out of hand! We need to find a larka for you ASAP.
Zakk, Sona, Laimuun, sumsum, zzze, ya'll need to start looking for Mr. sally!

there's a network of asian guys over here in saudi working in the english school. Many of them are from amrekiyaaaaaa unless ur from canada sally?

[DramaRani]

My background and fingerprinting report came, Alhumdulillah . Now I'm just waiting for my PII: Content Knowledge report. InshAllah those results will be good, iA, iA, iA .

[zakk]

Originally Posted by DramaRani

My background and fingerprinting report came, .

Cool. I can attach those to your biodata now.

[iTz_NoT_Me_iTzZu]

I've got so much hw but I'm so tired my eyes are crossing