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12-03-2007, 08:38 AM
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You are 30% marriageable *
That's pretty low. You need to work hard on your eligibility, young lady - become a doctor, start using Soft and Lovely, grow an extra few inches - you know what you gotta do. Or maybe you've been working hard to dissuade rishta Aunties from darkening your doorstep -in which case, you're doing well.
Might be somthing to do with this:
"describe your face: I cant see it due to flab"
Ok so third and last time I'm gonna ask this so please help:
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12-03-2007, 09:55 AM
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assalamu alaykum
I'd say a lie detector is best :P There was a programme once called date my daughter or something, and they had to do lie detector tests to pass.I think it'll make it quickier and easier to ward through the pile insha Allah.
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12-03-2007, 10:04 AM
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I'm only 38% marriageable. Good thing I'm already married.
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12-03-2007, 10:06 AM
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assalmau alaykum
my ovaries are eating themselves or something

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12-03-2007, 10:46 AM
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Great questions. But I'm skeptical of how well they would work. Somehow I don't trust that many people would give honest answers if they were negative.
Plus, most people don't realize it when they blame others for their faults.
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12-03-2007, 11:02 AM
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Yeah, the 100 questions at the bottom were the ones on SV's list too. I mean, it's the same list.
And no, there are no guarantees that you're gonna get truthful answers. I guess that's why you have to know the person for some time too before you decide to marry them.

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12-03-2007, 11:09 AM
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56% marriageable
ps: i'm not desi 
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12-03-2007, 11:29 AM
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Hey wow! I got a 40% on the Desi marriagability quiz, I'm not Desi! Good thing I'm already married though, cuz from that quiz I'd be hard pressed to find another FOB husband.
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12-03-2007, 12:22 PM
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You are 47% marriageable!
You're not going to be first choice for that cousin back home. If you like him, you need to improve your score. Perhaps you could boost your standing by learning to cook biryani, sewing your own wardrobe, and generating that essential air of subservience.
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12-03-2007, 12:30 PM
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You are 70% marriageable!
Almost there! You're probably the kind of girl that hears 'first class, wery nice nice' a lot from Aunties. Expect to find a nice boy from 'back home' soon.
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12-03-2007, 12:35 PM
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I no longer have to wax/thread/bleach anything on my face. Eyebrows just need a little plucking which I can do myself so no more painful threading.
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 You got your eyebrows lasered?

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no, I pluck them. I used to get electrolysis done before to shape my eyebrows instead of threading. You can't really laser them into a shape since laser does an area at a time, not individual strands.
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Is that safe? Electrolysis near your eyes?
I'm okay with having to thread/pluck my eyebrows. I dunno if I'd wanna alter their shape permanently.

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I'm 33% marriagable. glad I already roped a husband in. tee hee.
I think I'm getting a cold.
I bought some lip gloss yesterday that I LOVE, alhamdulillah. the shade is perfect.
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electrolysis is safe, no side effects. And it's one hair at a time so your eye won't get zapped. It wasn't really close to the eyes, I didn't have the area under my brows done, just the top and sides following my natural shape. And it's not immediately permanent, it usually takes a lot of sessions to permanently kill the hair. Depends what setting they use/how good their machine is too.
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But it hurts, right?

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of course  I'd take electrolysis (being stabbed with a tiny needle to remove hair) over threading (hair violently yanked out with thread of torture) any day though.
here's a pain chart, from most pain to least. Threading and electro might be tied though, threading is quicker, but electro has hair zapping effects. And with all of them, coarser hair hurts more than removing thinner hair so it depends how furry you are/how sensitive your skin is.
threading>electrolysis>waxing>laser>plucking.
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True... but threading my eyebrows for me is like once every three weeks or so and it doesn't take that long. It's not that much of a hassle or too painful (at the brow area, at least). I just don't like the idea of permanently altering my eyebrows; I dunno why. Maybe something to do with the haraam thing?
Now waxing or epilating I feel like hurts the most. So I'm definitely considering laser hair removal for face and legs and underarms. Keep us posted on how your experience goes. Does permanent really mean permanent?  Is that even possible?

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