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Going to airport wery wery soon. Gosh I can't contain myself!  |
mashaAllah. yay! enjoy yourself 
i don't know why, but it seems like i'm suppperrr sensitive to cold temperatures around that time of the month. like, my hands and feet will be ice cold the first 3 days of the cycle. what gives, man?
and my mom insists that i should be eating all these like heavy foods so i can be "prepared" for married life.  like, liver and cherries and things that "make blood"....ew :barf: |
10-10-2008, 02:37 PM
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i don't know why, but it seems like i'm suppperrr sensitive to cold temperatures around that time of the month. like, my hands and feet will be ice cold the first 3 days of the cycle. what gives, man?
and my mom insists that i should be eating all these like heavy foods so i can be "prepared" for married life. like, liver and cherries and things that "make blood"....ew :barf: |
Sounds like iron deficiency to me, but could be wrong. Take multi-vitamins with iron.  |
10-10-2008, 02:43 PM
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go hug your parents.
thanks, ladies i miss my dad. every time i go home when my mom has a khatam/et al for him, i get grilled by everyone there. doesn't matter whether they're related, or family friends, or people i don't even know. you know how it is with judgmental community folks - umarried, working, and not living at home. clearly that means that i'm heartless and don't take care of my mom right? sigh. can't keep everyone happy, that's for sure.
i've been super antsy all week. i hardly did any work..instead, i spent the week cleaning my apartment top to bottom. every single possible thing that could be cleaned or rearranged..was cleaned and/or rearranged. then i cleaned a friends apartment top to bottom. and i rode my bike a lot. and i ate a lot of crap. and now i'm breaking out..haha. you think i'd learn not to do this by now huh.
please keep him and my family in your prayers inshallah
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thanks, ladies i miss my dad. every time i go home when my mom has a khatam/et al for him, i get grilled by everyone there. doesn't matter whether they're related, or family friends, or people i don't even know. you know how it is with judgmental community folks - umarried, working, and not living at home. clearly that means that i'm heartless and don't take care of my mom right? sigh. can't keep everyone happy, that's for sure.
i've been super antsy all week. i hardly did any work..instead, i spent the week cleaning my apartment top to bottom. every single possible thing that could be cleaned or rearranged..was cleaned and/or rearranged. then i cleaned a friends apartment top to bottom. and i rode my bike a lot. and i ate a lot of crap. and now i'm breaking out..haha. you think i'd learn not to do this by now huh.
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who cares what other people think. all that matters is what your mom thinks and your own immediate family thinks. she probably thinks ur a wonderful daughter anyways. and people will always talk, whether your single or married, ive noticed. theyre never happy cause they will always find some little thing wrong with everyone to talk about.
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It feels like the temperature literally dropped 10 degrees from yesterday. its freezin colddddddd.  |
and now I am getting SICK. yuckkk : 
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thanks, ladies i miss my dad. every time i go home when my mom has a khatam/et al for him, i get grilled by everyone there. doesn't matter whether they're related, or family friends, or people i don't even know. you know how it is with judgmental community folks - umarried, working, and not living at home. clearly that means that i'm heartless and don't take care of my mom right? sigh. can't keep everyone happy, that's for sure.
i've been super antsy all week. i hardly did any work..instead, i spent the week cleaning my apartment top to bottom. every single possible thing that could be cleaned or rearranged..was cleaned and/or rearranged. then i cleaned a friends apartment top to bottom. and i rode my bike a lot. and i ate a lot of crap. and now i'm breaking out..haha. you think i'd learn not to do this by now huh.
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may Allah swt make it easy for you.
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qudsia - I wish I had some advice or something inspirational to say to help you. just remember, those people don't really know you or your situation or anything, really. try to let the comments and questions roll off you, because those people don't matter in the larger picture. may Allah make it easy for you.
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2 more hours to go Apparently the HR lady here LIED on her resume and she has no experience in HR what so ever, which would explain why she doesn't know what the **** she's doing.
In other news, I think I'm also getting sick. My throat hurts when I talk, eat and drink. This is not okay.
Dua'as all around.
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Alhumdulillah for everything - good, bad, and questionable.
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thanks, ladies i miss my dad. every time i go home when my mom has a khatam/et al for him, i get grilled by everyone there. doesn't matter whether they're related, or family friends, or people i don't even know. you know how it is with judgmental community folks - umarried, working, and not living at home. clearly that means that i'm heartless and don't take care of my mom right? sigh. can't keep everyone happy, that's for sure.
i've been super antsy all week. i hardly did any work..instead, i spent the week cleaning my apartment top to bottom. every single possible thing that could be cleaned or rearranged..was cleaned and/or rearranged. then i cleaned a friends apartment top to bottom. and i rode my bike a lot. and i ate a lot of crap. and now i'm breaking out..haha. you think i'd learn not to do this by now huh.
please keep him and my family in your prayers inshallah |
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thanks, ladies i miss my dad. every time i go home when my mom has a khatam/et al for him, i get grilled by everyone there. doesn't matter whether they're related, or family friends, or people i don't even know. you know how it is with judgmental community folks - umarried, working, and not living at home. clearly that means that i'm heartless and don't take care of my mom right? sigh. can't keep everyone happy, that's for sure.
i've been super antsy all week. i hardly did any work..instead, i spent the week cleaning my apartment top to bottom. every single possible thing that could be cleaned or rearranged..was cleaned and/or rearranged. then i cleaned a friends apartment top to bottom. and i rode my bike a lot. and i ate a lot of crap. and now i'm breaking out..haha. you think i'd learn not to do this by now huh.
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10-10-2008, 04:19 PM
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2 years. it's gonna be a rough weekend. call me a jerk, but i really don't wanna go home. or see people. or be nice and talk. if i could just sleep through monday, i'd be good.
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Weird, lol. Some lingerie places that I know are Agent Provocateur, Guia La Bruna, La Perla and Vagin Pouvoir ( although I hate getting anything from them cause the name is just so umm  ) |
those places are all ridiculously expensive.
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I saw JCPenney's stuff but I found it to be a bit too...cutesy. Like, it doesn't appeal to what I assume it should appeal to, for a man. ok that sounds very besharam but you get what I mean. Some of their stuff says "hug me, i'm 8 years old tee hee"...and not "hello there  ". I'm gonna check macy's out. |
haha. that is so true. i went shopping there for bridal things with my sister before she got married, and everything was... gross. like, light pink or ivory colored or flowery stretchy material with ugly lace or crochet work.
va-va-voom! 
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 i can't wait till i get to shop for these things
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afra i love your scandalous ways. if i was a guy i'd totally marry you 
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i'm at work and i can't keep awake.
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Asalamu Alaikum,
for the record, FPH decieved me into thinking your preggo 
Its okay though, I'll wait a bit longer  
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I'm so miserably sick.
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