^hope u get the job inshaAllah if it is best for you that is.
so anyways, this sister i know..(a great mustaqima n bashful sista; friend's friend) today after i said my salaams after my salah. She came up to me and said, "you are the first one to be invited to my wedding this summer". subhaAllah

As I was pleased and honoured to hear that, at the same time, things worried me a little. Since she suffered from a great loss in last few months, one of her parents passed away. may Allah have mercy on her. so as a concerned citizen

I questioned her and of course out of curiosity, i asked "so what criterion did u based ur decision on"...to my surprise she quickly answered me back
" of course based on the religion as u know...then he treats his family very nicely"
then i was like "but u did ur salatul istakarah right"
she replied "yes..soemtimes 20 rakahs or more"
then i was relieved..
anyhoo, relying on THE CREATOR Of the world is utmost important, also on our intellect to be able to judge a suitor i think is also crucial. i dont know if this way of judging is good..she is happy and i am happy for her.! thats all that matters. and perhaps as they say, when things are meant to happen, it 'll happen and we'll just got to adapt to it..
I ask Rub bul 3alameen to keep them happily everafter. ameen.
thats my only post for islamica..chiaos

ps good to know everyone is doing great!!
