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If I lower my standards then there will be too many to choose from..now this would create more confusion..why isnt life as easy as simple arithmetic?  1+1 |
well do you actually like any of your suitors on a personal level?
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11-05-2007, 09:23 PM
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well do you actually like any of your suitors on a personal level?
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Define personal level? Are u refering that do I know them well enough to judge them? If so, i dont know them on personal level, some are family friend's sharif beta or others are from my seniors from the University, MSA relations, local muslim community relations...i dont know about the concept of liking someone what would that constitute? I like everyone. really.  I find everyone interesting and everyone's individuality increases my curiousity to get to know them even more..but as u know we cant do that..unless of course we are have the whole wali thing happening...  |
11-05-2007, 09:29 PM
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Anyone know a tailor in the northern VA area who can sew a blouse for a sari? I have the material for it and all it just needs to be cut/sewn... please help
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11-05-2007, 09:30 PM
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Define personal level? Are u refering that do I know them well enough to judge them? If so, i dont know them on personal level, some are family friend's sharif beta or others are from my seniors from the University, MSA relations, local muslim community relations...i dont know about the concept of liking someone what would that constitute? I like everyone. really. I find everyone interesting and everyone's individuality increases my curiousity to get to know them even more..but as u know we cant do that..unless of course we are have the whole wali thing happening... |
yeah I guess that's true.. but after meeting with em do any of them tickle your toosies? Is there any initial attraction? any chemistry whatsoever? If not I wouldn't lower my standards for em
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yeah I guess that's true.. but after meeting with em do any of them tickle your toosies? Is there any initial attraction? any chemistry whatsoever? If not I wouldn't lower my standards for em
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i think i have issues with makign things so freakinggggggg complicated, i dont think i will ever get married lol.  |
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only two or three -somewha though....but then wouldnt it be irrational way of selecting a spouse? based on instincts?
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nope. I don't think marriage should be so calculated and robotic. there has to be some feeling and emotion somewhere. start with the guys who you're attracted to or feel a little something for and then work from there. that totally narrows it down
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assalamu alaykum
istikhara?
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Post on the Facebook FPH group.
And definitely istikhara.
 
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how do you reduce/stop frizziness? 
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Anyone know a tailor in the northern VA area who can sew a blouse for a sari? I have the material for it and all it just needs to be cut/sewn... please help
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Look in the phone book under "alterations" there are ALWAYS people around who alter wedding dresses and such. Any person like that should be able to custom sew you something as simple as a sari top.
Controlling frizziness- fructis anti-frizz cream works pretty well for me... and it smells nice.
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Oh yeah totally. I used a different conditioner yesterday (the blue Herbal Essence) and my hair was dry. Like wtf? It's still the same shampoo.
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someone needs to invite me to that
also, I think istikhara will be in order once she narrows her list of suitors down... it sounded like she had a lot of mediocre guys after her.. I could be wrong though
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nope. I don't think marriage should be so calculated and robotic. there has to be some feeling and emotion somewhere.
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seriously there needs to be at least a little "woosh" 
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there needs to be alot of "woooshhh" in a marriage
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i had my GSK interview today and wow was it hard but i think it went well, please dua that i get it.
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