[sumiyia]

salika: inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oon ameen to the du'aas...


chotoo: insha'allah everything goes smoothly, and both mommy and baby are healthy and home soon! i'm so happy for you!!!

[DramaRani]

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

Awww... thanks everyone

Yeah, I am, but it's early labor. My mom says I could be uncomfortable like this for a few days Had a hard time sleeping last night because of it. If I make it to my appointment Thursday, she better say that I've progressed. I'm going to if I've been uncomfortable like this and she tells me that I'm still at the same place I was 2 weeks ago

Oh, and my feet have sudenly balooned. I gained like 6 lbs this week trying to drink tons of water to flush it out.

May Allah Swt make things easier on you. I will make duaa for you, iA .

Originally Posted by Salika

So about that girl who's husband got shot, he passed away a few hours ago. I can't even imagine what she must be going through. She's barely a year older than me and her son can't be more 3 years old. Please pray for them

Inna lillahi wa inna ilahi rajioon. Ameen to the duaas .

[Salika]

Originally Posted by Shivermetimbers

ameen.

recently, i've become so scared of death. i think about it all day. i'm terrified for the lives of my family members. i worry about them when they're out, and i can't seem to stop until they're home. safe and sound. and even then i know we're never really "safe and sound." death is sudden and unexpected. it leaves you with no options. the only thing you can do is accept. i just can't seem to shake it off. it even invades the sanctity of my dreams. may Allah take us when we're ready to go.

Ya, that's how I've been the past couple of days. This is actually the second death I heard about this weekend (although the first one is expected, he was dying from cancer) but now I fear so much for my loved ones. We should constantly make dua that Allah protect us. That's really all we can do.

[jaani]

Originally Posted by moonlightrose

ok did anyone else get a spam PM from "ZeeZee" ??

I did. Report it. Delete it.

Then partaaayyyyyyyyyy!!



SAL: Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajiun

~j

[Timbit]

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

Awww... thanks everyone

Yeah, I am, but it's early labor. My mom says I could be uncomfortable like this for a few days Had a hard time sleeping last night because of it. If I make it to my appointment Thursday, she better say that I've progressed. I'm going to if I've been uncomfortable like this and she tells me that I'm still at the same place I was 2 weeks ago

Oh, and my feet have sudenly balooned. I gained like 6 lbs this week trying to drink tons of water to flush it out.

Okay, I know Thursday's not far off, but feet swelling up that much isn't a good sign, I think. Can you get it checked out earlier?

I doubt you'll be going through this for two weeks though. Your doctor will probably have to induce you in that case.

[heba]

hey girls
just got a haircut. its shorter than mylast cut..im not sure if i like it..i guess it needs some getting used to....

[sumiyia]

anyone seen the new ikea commercial? i thought the moms would enjoy it..

a toddler in a diaper walks out of the bathroom with those over-the-toilet-seat-potty training seat cover things made for tiny bottoms... he walks into the living room all nicely decorated with ikea furniture and plops the seat onto the living room sofa. he drops his diapers and they cut to the text.. "washable covers in every color" or something. funny stuff

[fatima]

Originally Posted by Salika

So about that girl who's husband got shot, he passed away a few hours ago. I can't even imagine what she must be going through. She's barely a year older than me and her son can't be more 3 years old. Please pray for them

inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oun. ameen to the duaas


chotoo: hang in there, inshallah it will go smoothly

[sumiyia]

Originally Posted by Shivermetimbers

ameen.

recently, i've become so scared of death. i think about it all day. i'm terrified for the lives of my family members. i worry about them when they're out, and i can't seem to stop until they're home. safe and sound. and even then i know we're never really "safe and sound." death is sudden and unexpected. it leaves you with no options. the only thing you can do is accept. i just can't seem to shake it off. it even invades the sanctity of my dreams. may Allah take us when we're ready to go.

just before ramadan started i kept praying that i would be blessed to actually see it and experience it again this year. life really is too short. we went to the cemetery hours before it started. the baby cemetery is the saddest. there was one for an 11 month old, another one for a 2 year old i think. ultimately everyone will die and there's nothing we can do about it. at the end of the day, just trust in Allah swt, make plenty of du'aa and do your best in this life. we will all experience the pangs of death. not even the prophet was immune from it. we all have our appointed times. i don't have a source for this but i heard that while we are in the womb, our birth, death and our rizq is decided for us and nothing will change it. we have to remember that Allah swt is merciful. only one part of his rahma is here on earth. and one thing we can control is our deeds. our deeds will determine whether our death will be painful or easy, what the situation in our graves will be, what our responses to the munkar and nakeer's questions will be in the grave, and ultimately whether we end up in jannah or hell fire. read surah mulk every night as it is supposed to ease the punishments of the grave. and do your best to put together some sort of sadaqah jariyah for yourself so that you continue to get good deeds while in the grave. may Allah swt guide us to the straight path, help us to lead righteous lives and do good deeds, take us from this life as believers, make our deaths easy for us, and have mercy on us in our graves and on the day of judgment. may He bless us with righteous children and grandchildren who continue to make du'aa for us once we have passed. may He bless all of us with jannat al firdaus. ameen.

p.s. sorry for the essay.

[fatima]

Originally Posted by sumiyia

just before ramadan started i kept praying that i would be blessed to actually see it and experience it again this year. life really is too short. we went to the cemetery hours before it started. the baby cemetery is the saddest. there was one for an 11 month old, another one for a 2 year old i think. ultimately everyone will die and there's nothing we can do about it. at the end of the day, just trust in Allah swt, make plenty of du'aa and do your best in this life. we will all experience the pangs of death. not even the prophet was immune from it. we all have our appointed times. i don't have a source for this but i heard that while we are in the womb, our birth, death and our rizq is decided for us and nothing will change it. we have to remember that Allah swt is merciful. only one part of his rahma is here on earth. and one thing we can control is our deeds. our deeds will determine whether our death will be painful or easy, what the situation in our graves will be, what our responses to the munkar and nakeer's questions will be in the grave, and ultimately whether we end up in jannah or hell fire. read surah muzammil every night as it is supposed to ease the punishments of the grave. and do your best to put together some sort of sadaqah jariyah for yourself so that you continue to get good deeds while in the grave. may Allah swt guide us to the straight path, help us to lead righteous lives and do good deeds, take us from this life as believers, make our deaths easy for us, and have mercy on us in our graves and on the day of judgment. may He bless us with righteous children and grandchildren who continue to make du'aa for us once we have passed. may He bless all of us with jannat al firdaus. ameen.

p.s. sorry for the essay.

ameen

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[Safia]

ameen



this prbly isn't very fitting right now....but....I thought I'd share with ya'll; I'm getting married soon, at the end of this year/beginning of next year. Alhamdulillah.

oh, and don't quote this .

take care ya'll .

[Caramel_Candy]

aww mubarak Safia

[fatima]

mashallah congratulations safia!!

[afrakabob]

mabruk!