[thejellymill]

heba: is it a Razr? Please say no. I have a hot pink Razr that my hubby got me as a wedding gift, and everyone and their momma's got one too (in hot pink!) and they all have the same flaws.

Originally Posted by zzze

assalamu alaykum

jelly Pray Istikhara insha Allah...I did istikhara for like 2 weeks before I decided to interrupt my studies (w 2 semesters left) but I can go back and I plan to, or even finish it wherver I am..plus there's open university. If you guys can agree on when/how to talk, esp as he's coming back so soon (may, right?) then insha Allah you can have uni done with happily. Insha Allah khair :flwer:

Yea, maybe I should pray Istikharah more . I prayed it only once and only made du'a after that instead of the formal prayer...I also talked to my mom, roommate, brother in law, father in law and some friends about it. None of them thought I should take off but many of them changed their minds when they heard it's "for the well-being of the marriage (and our sanity)."

Alhamdulillah our phone conversation went well. We discussed A LOT of options but in the end I decided and told him that I am just going to go back to India with him inshallah when he goes in June. I will take off summer and fall semesters, then we'll see from there inshallah. In India he found me a great alima Qur'an course to attend and I'm going to look for an internship too. I made him promise that he's going to force me to go back when the time comes (either spring '09 or summer '09). Inshallah it all works out .

P.S. thanks for the du'as and advice everyone (esp zzze) and also thanks for answering my question about husbands and college tuition a few days back