Yousuf:
umm, how about having your son, put up a sign like that?
She is not the first mother to do such a thing and I don't see the problem with it. He did the crime, now man up and tell the world what you did. Let the world [specifically your community] see and react to the crap you pulled. Putting the daddy comment in there shows the child that he is cruising down the same road of destruction that he now, more than likely, resents his father for doing. It's bringing the kid back into reality. It's like when you were younger and your parents put your bad grade up on the fridge for everyone to see. Public humiliation.

shadha-
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