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Originally Posted by ShahRukh
I can see you're trying too hard to paint the guy in negative light and attempting to depict yourself as the virgin Marry here.
What were you doing with the guy alone when he asked you those questions? If you're so pious yourself, why did you choose to go out/hang out with him?
Also, why didn't you just dump/leave him right on spot when he was physically getting closer to you or making such suggestions?
p.s. I'm not trying to trick you or anyone. In fact I'm trying my best not to be tricked by any random internet poster here for some sympathy points. We get such trolls in dozens here every week.
p.s. Kissing, cuddling, and even foreplay are not considered Zina in Islam, those are major sins that lead to zina, hence major haram. Zina alone is the act of adultery. Get your facts right about Islam.Unless the guy was asking you for sex, theres no need to paint him in such negative light and accuse him of things he didn't actually suggest.
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Grrr...I dont normally hang out with guys alone! But I guess see so many of my friends getting married, and they have all these relationships and are fiine with a little bit of fitnah, and then boom!, they are married. Even my hijabi friends meet up with guys alone and then marry them. Maybe it depends on how comfortable you feel with it and the guy, and he didnt push me into anything, he just
encouraged me to get more comfortable. I did tell him how I felt and he said to have "faith" and asked if I am going to make him feel guilty everytime he asks to hold my hand or give me a hug. I honestly think those things are off limits, but seems as though I am the only one. Even if it is not zina, it is still fitnah!