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Originally Posted by Whatyosayin
1) No, I am not saying I am so beautiful that he cant keep his hands off of me. I dont think that has anything to do with it all. I think this has to do with someone trying to test my boundaries and see if they can get away with it, instead of respecting them. OR, he is just a total perv who really doesnt have any Islamic values at all, and really just because he prays, doesnt mean we have anything in common. He calls himself "balanced", I call it extreme.
2) Don't try to trick me. Maybe you should read up on Islam again yourself, regarding controlling your desires, nafs, etc.
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I can see you're trying too hard to paint the guy in negative light and attempting to depict yourself as the virgin Marry here.
What were you doing with the guy alone when he asked you those questions? If you're so pious yourself, why did you choose to go out/hang out with him?
Also, why didn't you just dump/leave him right on spot when he was physically getting closer to you or making such suggestions?
p.s. I'm not trying to trick you or anyone. In fact I'm trying my best not to be tricked by any random internet poster here for some sympathy points. We get such trolls in dozens here every week.
p.s. Kissing, cuddling, and even foreplay are not considered Zina in Islam, those are major sins that lead to zina, hence major haram. Zina alone is the act of adultery. Get your facts right about Islam.Unless the guy was asking you for sex, theres no need to paint him in such negative light and accuse him of things he didn't actually suggest.