Thanks everyone. I guess just because someone is friends with your friends (friends who are respectable), and because someones family is religious, and they are of the same culture, nationality, community circle, does not mean their son is not a sleazebag in disgiuse. Sigh. He also told me how he had a relationship with a hijabi for three years, whom he wanted to marry, and they were kissing and hugging pretty early into their relationship because he has needs.
What about Allah swt's requests of us? He said she was not comfortable at first but became okay with it later. Sigh. It always starts with the prik of a needle, but the needle will just become more and more dull as you keep banging it against the wall.
