[gmk]

Problems usually don't get better after marriage, they get worse. If he is disregarding your feelings and pressuring you to do stuff you don't want to do NOW.... just imagine how insensitive and selfish he will be when you are married... these are the kinds of basic character traits you need to look out for when you pick a life partner, trust me. I got lucky (also I was smart about who I picked), but I can't say the same for a lot of people I know.