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Originally Posted by Whatyosayin

Maybe I should also add that I am not hijabi, so for some reason, people think that non-hijabis are "liberal" and willing to do anything, but thats not true. Also, most of my friends are married these days, and alot of them were quite liberal with their boyfriends before marriage, which makes me wonder if that is a prerequisite for all guys. If I dont get physical before marriage, but not wear hijab, does this mean I am never going to get married??? Surely, not everyone is like this?

It isnt a prerequuisite for all guys, just the wrong ones. If he is starting off like this...it seems like it will probably get worse. Inshallah things will work out for you.