[PhDGirl]

I don't think that living in a dorm or with a non-Muslim roommate is bad per se. But, if your parents are dead-set against it, you really ought to discuss things with them. You can always take Nooni's suggestion and live at home for the beginning and maybe you'll meet someone Muslim through the MSA or something and live with them later. If you bring her home to meet your parents, they'll probably feel more comfortable with it too. Good luck.