[DramaRani]

Questions:
so is your mother a housewife?
has she always been one?
has she been involved in a career at points during your lifetime?
did she ever work solely out of necessity (financial) or due to boredom?

Answers:
Yes.
Yes.
No.
N/A.


One of my aunts, by marriage, is a working mom. She's always worked. Not really out of necessity, but out of strong will and desire. She's had ayahs raise her kids until they were school age. In pursuit of more money, she uprooted her entire family. However, before doing that, she left her one kid with her parents for 7 months (in another state) and left my uncle and her other kid in another state. Anyway, my cousins are totally messed up now. No common sense, no courtesy, NO RELIGION, no respect... They are beyond belief spoiled. They ask for boo, and they'll get boo, boo, and boo in return. Whenever we call out my cousin's bad behavior, my uncle always says that he feels guilty for my cousin having to live with his grandparents and stuff.

Personally, I wouldn't mind working after children. I chose a flexible career path in life anyway, Alh. However, I would never put my job (or more money) above my family.