Re: Polygyny
asslamau alaykum
Most men in the Western world are *not* getting married to help out a ''poor widow'' with x children. Most men who are married wouldn't take on a second wife. It's only 19 year old boys who claim they want to be just to two+. Please, focus on trying to get one woman to agree to live with u forever. Most men will never do justice to their wives, financially, emotionally, everything - why would anyone take on the extra baggage?
plus,you cannot compare men now to the sahaaba lol. As people who are closer to the yawn of qiyamah we should try not make unnecessary trials and tribulations for ourselves lol.
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