Re: Would you cut off all opposite gender friendships after marriage?
Define "friend".
I think that's really where the judgement lies.
Some people have opposite-sex friends that they can rely on, have similar interests, were friends with their sister/brother, grew up with, whatever. I don't think there should be such a big deal about that.
Other people have opposite-sex friends they hug, flirt, pat, pet, play, or whatever, with. I think these people probably have to either be cut off, or the relationship has to change significantly.
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