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Old 01-06-2008, 02:03 PM
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Default Re: Would you cut off all opposite gender friendships after marriage?

Shouldn't this be in the love and relationship section?

To answer the question, I don't have a problem doing that.

The trick is to actually limit the opposite gender friends you have before marriage and to keep your distance.

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Originally Posted by sally View Post
iA whoever i marry should be on the same wavelenght as myself on this. there should be no double standards on this issue islamically speaking

i used to think there was no harm in casual convos but it's really nothing worthwhile like displaced said. makes life less complicated. plus i think it's wrong

it's not about insecurity, it's about agreeing that something like this is wrong. like i wouldnt be ok with non zabiha eating, etc
I agree.
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