Jamroll:
Just give the kids to your mum. It's a win-win situation.
If I was a single mother, I may ask that of my mother only because I would have no other alternative. However, seeing as that's not the case, I don't feel that it would be right to burden my parents with raising their grandchild. Their diaper years are over. A few hours a week, sure, a weekend every few weeks, sure, but on a daily basis? No.

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