[Pushpa]

Thanks for all the suggestions.

sixpak - you know boxing is not a bad idea. Although this kid is more interested in martial arts, so maybe I;ll see if there are any classes around here.

shadha - yes that is EXACTLY how it is. At the moment we just, as you say, back off, but I really think something else needs to be done. How to suggest anger management therapy without WWIII breaking out?