We both echoed each others sections in the contract. Support in continuing our education, patience with work/salary, keep the house Halal, mutual respect, children come first, and in the event of divorce how the child custody and child support goes.
The only times where our sides of the contract 'differed' were in his section when he requested that our children not attend daycare and my part where I requested that our children not attend public school. Also, I added that in the event that he loses his damn mind and seeks out a second wife, it will be immediate grounds for divorce.
I have no regrets for my contract. We didn't put in arbitrary stipulations or anything. It was simple, straight-forward, and we kept it real.
shadha-
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You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I'll rise.
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