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Originally Posted by Timbit
That's true. Pressure sucks regardless.
But if you wanna and your parents want you to too, then vat is the problem?
And do you have any tips for those of us who are coming up against parental pressure (i.e. Sally) or for those of us who know they are going to encounter it fairly soon (i.e. Timbit)?
Awww, poor thing. Feel better. 
Umm... ginger ale?
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I don't know a way around it. The issue for me was that my parents rejected many of my rishtas (before I even knew of them) and if one ever made it through and got to me then I would end up rejecting it. Believe me, this was NOT because we were picky. It was just slim pickings. Usually the major issue was around religion and alh, my parents won't budge on that and never got on me for doing the same.
Just be open minded about it so your parents aren't frustrated by you. At least be willing to trust their judgment and give people a shot and if it doesn't work, move on. If you are super resistant to even considering someone...there will be a lot of drama.. and tears.. and drama... and yelling.. and hai Allah... ptv drama.