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Babyepiphany said
As-Salamu Alaykum,
Is it possible to get married without a wali, im not a muslim but the man i want to marry is. My family is mainly women (mother and sister) i do not have any males that i am close with.
Also is it discouraged to get married without the family knowing, the reason for this is that we want to have a halal relationship, but my family want me to put education first instead of marriage (they do not want me to be distracted)
Thank you.
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I'm not qualified to answer your question but I have to tell you...before you marry a muslim man....Make sure
his family (mother especially) knows about you and knows of your intention to marry. I have heard many horror stories where the muslim husband never tells his family he married outside of the religion...and the poor girl gets horrible treatment because of it. ...So just make sure you cover all your bases and get the family involved before you make a huge commitement....Becasue in Islam...its not just a marriage of two people its a marriage of familes
