[heba]

to me, my career is extremely important. i dont want to throw away 4 years of stress and hard work at university, tens of thousands of dollars, and a professional certification for his sake.

so when it comes down to it, a compromise is definately going to be made. if i need to move somewhere for his job, i will make sure that i will be able to find a job there as well. there is no way in hell i will sit at home while hes out working beause we live somewhere that has absolutely no demand for my field.

(and vice versa)