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Go online to Muslim matrimonial sites and talk to people on there. Looking for a mate is a learned skill. You will suck at it at first. But over time, you will start to get a good idea of what you are looking for and how to recognize those traits in another person. If you read one of the books written by Neil Clark Warren (eharmony founder), it will give you some great tips on how to recognize the right traits in a potential marriage partner early on in communication. But ultimately, it takes experience to get to the point where A) you are ready and B) you find the right one. Good luck!