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Originally Posted by serendipity_000
Assalamu Alaikum,
Two things:
1) Just because you've talked about something before marriage, doesn't mean it will actually end up that way after marriage. So saying, "talk about it before marriage" doesn't magically guarantee that it will not be an issue later on.
2) "Ideally"...way overused and no such thing exists
There are a million career related scenarios that can arise after marriage. Put Allah first, communicate and share how you feel with each other and insh'Allah you'll both be fine.  |
Thats a great post...but If me and my husband agree on something important like my career/me working/childcare etc...before marriage...you betta believe im gonna hold him to it after marriage...important stuff like that should be really put in a contract/or discussed in detail so he knows its something thats important to you....and not something that should be taken lightly.