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Originally Posted by Budmano786
ideally it should be discussed before marriage since it is a pretty big issue
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I don't find it a big issue though. Having been working for a while, it seems weird to not go to work just because you're getting married. I've always been able to come back from work, get all the housework done and cook dinner. It seems completely natural to go to work and being inhabited by marriage would make me feel very constricted! But then i wouldn't appreciate it if he stayed at home. It's perfectly possible for both people to work in a marriage. I wiould even argue, thats it's better, it gives you more to talk about and better for you both to socialise with different people.
Of course after kids, i wouldn't want to go to work, i'd much rather home school them and teach them how to grow vegetables in a patch and bake cookies.