If we had kids, I think I'd wanna stay home anyway, so then my career would take second place, at least while they were young. But if it's just me and him, then I dunno about that.
If we have to move for his job, okay, fine. I'll find a new job in the new city or try, at least.
But I'd expect him to compromise for the sake of my career too, if need be.
Anyway... Pushpa, most of us aren't even married so we do still have these rosy ideas you're talking about. We're not the best people to ask.
Obviously for the sake of your marriage, you have to talk to your husband before it really dose become something you resent him about.
