[gmk]

Man, that's tough. In your position, I would try to see what's best for the family in the long run. Who makes more money (or has the potential to make more)? That's important. In my situation, my husband can only work in one particular city, where my type of job can be found pretty much anywhere. When he found a job in that city, we moved even though I currently had a good job and didn't have a job in the new city. That's what made sense for us, because even if I wasn't able to find a job at first (Alhamdulillah, I found one), I still had the potential to find one eventually, but if we'd stayed in the original city he would NEVER have been able to find one for sure. So look at the long term consequences of going one way or the other and see what's best for you as a family. IMO.