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Originally Posted by zzze
asslaamu alaykum
Some girls are very hostile towards their fellow ''brothers'' simple because they assume he's going to hit on them. Why? Beause they were a hijaab  This is both justified and unjustified, demanding on the amount f harrassment that she receive ona daily basis from 'muslim' men - she may just have her guard up.
She may be shy.
Or she may just be on her period.
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Exactly.
And sometimes being rude is an automatic defense mechanism if you're nervous/shy/worried or simply not used to talking to the opposite gender. Believe me.
Secondly, usually Women usually are rude to put people off. Especially Muslim Sisters.
I think It is the same for Muslim Brothers who sometimes come of as rude or angry towards Muslim Sisters. It's not like they hate us, but being rude is a sort of facade. [? - I could be wrong here.]
I'm talking about real life though. Oh but alhamdulilah, Hijaab most of the time here usually does serve its purpose. Its not like guys dont speak to you, but they are more respectful and most have enough sense not to hit on you. If they do, they do it pretty indirectly.