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MossadConspiracy said
its pretty self explanatory, sis. We are supposed to know our heritage and our names are a big part of that. Second point is that shame is a socially defined phenomenon and all of our cultures would definitely consider it shameful to do what this guy did. Even westerners, who dont value family heritage and ties as much we do would consider shameful to do something like that (in many cases)
But we live in a diverse world where people are free to throw away the traditions of their cultures. If there are muslim guys out there who would degrade their family in the way you described, then i'm sure there are muslim girls out there who want them to do so. Heck, a girl could probably find desperate shameless guys out there who would change their own name to their wife's family name if she looked hard enough. Everybody's free to do whatever they want.
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dreamdeferred said
How did I answer my own question? 
Haha.......it's like a rorschach ink blot test.......you see what you want to see. It's actually calligraphy by that "aerosol arabic" guy who does murals and stuff.
Anyways sister, I vaguely remember that preservation of lineage (hifs-al-nasl) is one of the 5 objectives of Shariah according to legislators. I'll point you to some links later on insha'allah. |
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dreamdeferred said
Alright Timbit,
So the question is....if you're prepared to accept the fact that the preservation of lineage is of paramount importance from a Shariah perspective why would you purposely throw a wrench into a machine that is working just fine? Your proposition is unnecessarily disruptive to say the least.
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Because she resents men. There are some women who shouldn't get married until they get over their resentment of the opposite sex just as there are some men eg GotFive