[kerrigwen]

Jazakallah everyone for the advice and input; Chotoo - yep, you've got the right idea (I don't think she'd ever actually go through with an abortion, though I guess it might cross her mind).

And Zakk too, for the hadith =) Do you know if they're authentic? I'm looking elsewhere too, but it's kind of tricky finding ones that don't turn out to be fabricated or exaggerated Shia/Sufi "hadith".

She's told her husband by the way, and of course he's "over the moon". I'm glad, at least he'll be aware and considerate. I feel bad sort of, I don't know if she has any close Muslim friends there. I wish I could visit her. =\