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Originally Posted by Bluestar
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Perhaps you have a religion which you think is superior to the Religion of Muhammad [s]?
The Prophet [s] said:
"If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan), guards her modesty and obeys her husband, it will be said to her, “Enter Paradise through whichever gate of Paradise you wish.'"
(Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 1573; Saheeh al-Jaami’, 660)
And the Prophet [s] said:
“If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anything other than Allah, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands. By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, no woman will fulfill her duty towards her Lord unless she fulfills her duty towards her husband....”
(Hadeeth reported by Ibn Maajah, 1843; see also Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5239, 5295)
The Prophet [s] said:
“It is not right for any human being to prostrate to another; if it were right for one human being to prostrate to another, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands because of the great rights that they have over them. By the One in Whose hand is my soul, if a man were covered from head to foot with weeping sores oozing pus, and his wife were to come to him and lick his sores (to clean them), this would not fulfil the rights he has over her.’”
(Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 12153; Saheeh al-Jaami’, 7725).
The Prophet [s] asked a woman:
"How are you with respect to him [your husband]?"
She answered:
"I do not fail in obeying him save in those things that I am incapable of doing."
The Prophet [s] told her:
"Look to how you are with respect to him for he is your paradise and your hell-fire."
(Ahmad & others)
Sometimes you feminists say that we should not compare a woman to a child. Hmmm, well, actually, Shaykh Salih al-Munajjid ruled:
"Obedience to the husband takes precedence over obedience to the parents."
The late prominent Muslim scholar, Dr. Ahmad Ash-Sharbasi, professor of `Aqeedah and Philosophy at Al-Azhar Univ., states:
"Muslim scholars view that a Muslim wife should obey her husband in all what he commands as long as it is not Haram."
The Prophet [s] said:
"Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah".
(At-Tirmidhi)
The Prophet [s] said,
"Whenever a woman harms her husband in this world (that is without any due right), his wife among the (Houris in Jannah) says: `You must not harm him. May Allah destroy you! He is only a passing guest with you and is about to leave you to come to us". (At-Tirmidhi)
And the Prophet [s] said:
"The best wife is the one who pleases (her husband) when he looks at her, obeys him when he gives a command, and does not go against his wishes regarding her person or property by doing anything of which he disapproves." (Nasa'i and Bayhaqi)
We all agree that a child must be obedient to his mother. Yet, let us see who is placed over the parents. Aisha [ra] narrated:
I asked the Prophet: Who has the greatest right over a woman? He said: Her husband. I said: And who has the greatest right over a man? He said: His mother.
(Al-Haakim - taken from Fiqh As-Sunnah)