[shadha]

hebz: so, we DONT have to have sex with our husbands if we dont want to?

I understand that verse to refer to the past Arab custom of marrying the women of your deceased male relative, i.e. inheriting her.

hebz: being angry with another person is a perfectly legit reason to not want to be intimate in my opinion. and why isnt there a hadeeth stating the opposite

I agree with you. When I get angry at him, I won't talk to him, touch him, hell I won't even look in his direction. I'd completely and utterly ignore his very existence. But...I'll finish what I have to say on MSN because I'm sure some will find it just too Haram.


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