[Bruinrab]

Originally Posted by new_muslimah

I am soooo annoyed!!!!


There is this Muslim guy who is interested in me. He told his friends, my friends and basically anyone with ears of his interest in me. So now everytime I see one of his friends or mine, I am subjected to an hour long lecture about how great this guy is and how happy I'll be with him, how important marriage is and how I'm practically kaffir for not being interested in marriage.

I've started avoiding people cause it's gotten so bad. A friend of mine gave him my number and he started calling me all the time "just to say hello" and when I told him to stop, he started "texting me just to say hello"

I don't get it.....when you say no to Muslim guys, why do they automatically assume that you're confused, shy or playing hard to get. NO!!! I am perfectly lucid and I'm not confused. I'm just not into you!!! Why is everyone trying to get me married!!!!!!! Everywhere I go, I have to sit through aunties, uncles, everyone under the sun trying to get me married. Why is it as soon as you say salam to a Muslim brother, a week later he proposes? OMGGGGGG....Does salam mean "will you marry me" these days????? Alhamdulillah, I should be grateful and maybe when I'm 40 and wrinkled I'll want these proposals.....but when does EVERYTHING have to be about marriage and finding a husband ALL THE TIME!!!!!!!

Tell him you'll sic your brothers, male cousins, dad, whomever, on him if he doesn't stop harassing you. They tend to stop being so besharam then. Unless they were sent by your parents.