Originally Posted by Whatyosayin
Yes....I think that too now....no point in being good....you will just get trampled on....
So true....some friends really care but I should have known she would not have been one of them. Shes been in undergrad for 10 years yet married a PhD. And trashes people who got into law school because "its out of the province, she couldnt get into a school closeby". Hey, the girl is still in law school, and you arent! Or, if some girl gets into her masters, its "well its ARTS, she couldnt do science!"
Ive also heard her say, "When I get into dentistry (which she didnt), I will rub it up everyones noses!" So I should not be so surprised with her attitude. Some people are never friends, they are just oppurtunists.
To the person who said I am just bitter because I am not married, that is not true. Why must everything be defined by marriage? Typical desi mentality. I believe that Allah swt does not want me to get married now because He does not want me to have an atom's ounce of arrogance. I think when it happens, it will be just right, insha'Allah. I am angry, but not for those reasons. I am angry because of the comments she made, she was TRYING to scathe me to make herself feel better. Even if I never competed against her, she was always competing against me. Some people will trash others if they are up, or if they are down, just for the sake of massaging their own egos.
And to the person who wanted to yell at me for spending $700 on the bridal shower, yes, please do!! That was a HUGE mistake!! It wasnt planned that way. We were at the restaurant which was super expensive, and the waiter, who happened to be from my ethnic background, said "If I want to hold my head up high, and I want my friends to return the favor, then I should pay for everyone." Also, some of her coworkers left without paying when they should have.
I probably will not post any kind of inflammatory note on FB. Really, I do not like bad karma, but it seems to come way anyways.
From now on, I am going to be super *****.
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