assalamu alaykum
My husband rarely gets angry and even if he does he doesn't show it masha Allah (unlike moi
), so cursing my parents is pretty much impossible. If we have an argument I cook/don't cook depending on whether the ingrediants are in the house, if i haven't cooked already. I have to eat too, do not cooking would be cutting my nose off to spite my face. Plus then he'll say ''wow this chicken is good'' and all is well again.
I've matured a lot recently alhamdulilah so I don't try to continue the argument lol. I go quiet to cool off and think up ways of communicating my feelings properely...doesn't usually last long and then we make up and go and eat. The desire to eat is a great motivation for making up quicky, plus he's funny so i can't stay mad for long
