[shadha]

Ibn: Its not all about who's in his bed, like I said.

That's EXACTLY what it's about otherwise there is no reason for marriage. You keep bringing up these imaginary Mehram issues- what issues? The community can easily come together to assist in childcare and finances of the woman's family. So what now? She does not need to marry another woman's husband in order to attain help. If she is looking for moral and emotional support then she needs to look elsewhere, like maybe perhaps possibly at the single men. Go figure. And don't give me the excuse of there being a dramatic ratio difference because we're are certainly not at that point yet where it should even be up for debate.


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